Don't they make out? Do they get nude in front of eachother?When girls say they won't have sex until marriage, does that mean no kissing or hugging either?
It means they establish their own boundaries and that males who push them are no good.When girls say they won't have sex until marriage, does that mean no kissing or hugging either?
Its simple.
No sex.
Making out isnt sex..
i would assume they would do anything other than actual sex
depends on the person though
they make out and hug n all .... just not sex i guess
do you seriously have to ask this? they probably wont get naked in front of eachother, unless they live together and are changing clothes or something but of course they make out! people that choose to wait until marraige for sex still kiss and hug like everyone else.
Rarely!!! Naaa it just means the actual intercourse. Hugging, sure. Kissing, sure. Even further, sure. Just not intercourse. Hey, we're all human after all. There are no set rules; some do everything except intercourse, others won't even kiss until marriage. Also is very much dependent on the culture and media influence.
O_o wow... if hugging and kissing is part of s.e.x then i must not be a virgin!!!!! :O noooooooo
lol
kissing and hugging is not having sex so yes they will do dat
It depends on the person.
Some don't even kiss until marriage. Some do everything but actual penetration. It depends on the person and his/her morals.
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
What do you think will be the reaction of Christians nationwide when more states legalize gay marriage?
Initially a lot of b*tchiness. After the dust settles, it'll be like with blacks. The Christians will come to be embarrassed of their past bigotry, and embrace diversity.
And this isn't all Christians. Some are good about gays right now.What do you think will be the reaction of Christians nationwide when more states legalize gay marriage?
I personally will continue praying and watching the skies..... all this world is doing is proving the bible and its prophecies more and more. The continual legalization of gay marriages is simply a sign of the current situation this world is truly in and signifies that the Lord will be returning sooner than any one is aware of. So the reaction so called ';Christians'; should have is prayer and fasting. We should not condone anything to do with gay marriage however, these people are all creations of God and they deserve love for he hath loved us. Preachers need to preach the TRUTH about this matter and let it be known that the church does not condone gay marriages and NO minister should agree to marry any same sex couple. If they want to get married make them go through legal venues instead of Holy ones because there is NO and will NEVER be a holy same sex union. Bottom LineWhat do you think will be the reaction of Christians nationwide when more states legalize gay marriage?
If its done thru judicial activism then I would hope that people in general, not just Christians, will cry foul.
If its done thru the legislature or popular vote, well then, that is how the system is set up and people will complain and some people wont care and some people on both sides will be obnoxious jerks and then people will move on.
I won't care, but Christians nationwide will probably protest for a few days and then fail.
Obviously gay marriage isn't a good thing in my eyes, but we live in a free country. I'd rather live in America where I have to see gay people kissing than in the Middle East and be forced into a religion I don't want to be a part of.
I for one would move out of those states.
Gays are not like women and colored people! Racism and mistreatment of women are just social injustices. Homosexuality is directly stated as a sin.
This is a free country, but it doesn't seem like it's a popular choice to the public.
Sadness for our country who is losing it's foundations of family values and going secular. When we treat homosexuals like they are a race of people instead of just plain perverts like the Bible says, it is a sad time for our country. God did not make homosexuals. He made a man and a women. Homosexuality is an act not a person. They are acts of a very sinful nature.
Of course there would be outrage. However, they shouldn't retaliate by being psychotic. Instead, keep an open mind (the way Jesus does) and be willing to accept those who are different. And hopefully with some patient counseling, people will see the wrong they are doing.
If they have a problem with secular laws being allowed for secular people, they are welcome to move to places where the laws are based on the Bible. I hear real estate is quite cheap in Afghanistan.
I think the whole enchilada is going down the tubes shortly.
Look at ammo purchase rates...
There is really a very good chance that there is a violent revolution (where the fundamentalists kill us all) in the near future.
Same reaction they had when slavery was abolished, or when women started gaining equal rights, or when church and state were separated...
Fundies will probably heckle and riot and protest. Normal Christians either won't care because it has nothing to do with them, or rejoice because they are gay themselves.
The inevitable result is that the people will start cutting out any benefits and special privileges that any married people get. Why ought we to subsidize any marriage with our tax dollars?
I'm a christian and don't care, it has nothing to do with me. None of my business.
I'm a Christian and I am more concerned about other things.I will still be a Christian,God will soon come back and everything will come to an end.
I'm a christian.
I'm also bi.
And I'm okay with it.
We will end up like Lot and his daughters did when they lived in Sodom and Gomorrah. The straight will be outnumbered by the homosexuals.
Lets wait until we get there, so far your losing every state... even cali so slow your roll. Personally, I could care less though.
Riots and the changing of those laws even by force if necessary.
I agree with GOD. They'll find a new group to hate.
EDIT: Okay, the fundamentalist Christians.
Disgust
hopefully the same reaction when black kids and white kids were listening to MLK speech
You mean ';crazy Christians';
They're not all bigots :P
They will all turn gay
riots?
they will go get married
legally, and gay
And this isn't all Christians. Some are good about gays right now.What do you think will be the reaction of Christians nationwide when more states legalize gay marriage?
I personally will continue praying and watching the skies..... all this world is doing is proving the bible and its prophecies more and more. The continual legalization of gay marriages is simply a sign of the current situation this world is truly in and signifies that the Lord will be returning sooner than any one is aware of. So the reaction so called ';Christians'; should have is prayer and fasting. We should not condone anything to do with gay marriage however, these people are all creations of God and they deserve love for he hath loved us. Preachers need to preach the TRUTH about this matter and let it be known that the church does not condone gay marriages and NO minister should agree to marry any same sex couple. If they want to get married make them go through legal venues instead of Holy ones because there is NO and will NEVER be a holy same sex union. Bottom LineWhat do you think will be the reaction of Christians nationwide when more states legalize gay marriage?
If its done thru judicial activism then I would hope that people in general, not just Christians, will cry foul.
If its done thru the legislature or popular vote, well then, that is how the system is set up and people will complain and some people wont care and some people on both sides will be obnoxious jerks and then people will move on.
I won't care, but Christians nationwide will probably protest for a few days and then fail.
Obviously gay marriage isn't a good thing in my eyes, but we live in a free country. I'd rather live in America where I have to see gay people kissing than in the Middle East and be forced into a religion I don't want to be a part of.
I for one would move out of those states.
Gays are not like women and colored people! Racism and mistreatment of women are just social injustices. Homosexuality is directly stated as a sin.
This is a free country, but it doesn't seem like it's a popular choice to the public.
Sadness for our country who is losing it's foundations of family values and going secular. When we treat homosexuals like they are a race of people instead of just plain perverts like the Bible says, it is a sad time for our country. God did not make homosexuals. He made a man and a women. Homosexuality is an act not a person. They are acts of a very sinful nature.
Of course there would be outrage. However, they shouldn't retaliate by being psychotic. Instead, keep an open mind (the way Jesus does) and be willing to accept those who are different. And hopefully with some patient counseling, people will see the wrong they are doing.
If they have a problem with secular laws being allowed for secular people, they are welcome to move to places where the laws are based on the Bible. I hear real estate is quite cheap in Afghanistan.
I think the whole enchilada is going down the tubes shortly.
Look at ammo purchase rates...
There is really a very good chance that there is a violent revolution (where the fundamentalists kill us all) in the near future.
Same reaction they had when slavery was abolished, or when women started gaining equal rights, or when church and state were separated...
Fundies will probably heckle and riot and protest. Normal Christians either won't care because it has nothing to do with them, or rejoice because they are gay themselves.
The inevitable result is that the people will start cutting out any benefits and special privileges that any married people get. Why ought we to subsidize any marriage with our tax dollars?
I'm a christian and don't care, it has nothing to do with me. None of my business.
I'm a Christian and I am more concerned about other things.I will still be a Christian,God will soon come back and everything will come to an end.
I'm a christian.
I'm also bi.
And I'm okay with it.
We will end up like Lot and his daughters did when they lived in Sodom and Gomorrah. The straight will be outnumbered by the homosexuals.
Lets wait until we get there, so far your losing every state... even cali so slow your roll. Personally, I could care less though.
Riots and the changing of those laws even by force if necessary.
I agree with GOD. They'll find a new group to hate.
EDIT: Okay, the fundamentalist Christians.
Disgust
hopefully the same reaction when black kids and white kids were listening to MLK speech
You mean ';crazy Christians';
They're not all bigots :P
They will all turn gay
riots?
they will go get married
legally, and gay
If you continue in an emotional relationship outside of marriage, is that an affair in essence?
And there was some physical, but just before kissing. Slow dance, embrace, massage, caress.If you continue in an emotional relationship outside of marriage, is that an affair in essence?
Do you mean just ';short'; of kissing or did you already kiss him/her? For one thing, confiding to the opposite sex that is not family is a red flag. There is a huge difference between a boy/girl pal and a relationship. You are getting support that you should be getting in your marriage. Once it gets physical, well that's cheating too. I mean, think about it. It's like your ';dating'; this person, getting close, touching, kissing (possibly) before the sex!
Yes, this an affair by any definition.If you continue in an emotional relationship outside of marriage, is that an affair in essence?
Of course it's an affair! How would you feel if you knew your spouse was doing this with someone else? Would you do this in front of your spouse? You've already begun to cross some very serious lines here - apparently the only one left is sex and you've come so very close to that. If you value your marriage at all, you'll run away from this relationship as fast as you can.
Anything you keep secret from your spouse is CHEATING.
Because you are lying to your spouse. You are a coward. Terrified to tell your spouse the truth, because you're afraid of losing your spouse. Not because you love your spouse, but because you would think of yourself as a loser. That is your worst fear. Your spouse is just an ornament you keep in your life to make yourself feel better about yourself. So is your affair partner. You don't really love either of them. Because you hate yourself.
now that would be a dream emotional relationship outside the marriage!!! slow dance, embrace, and massage whoooo hooo, and then caress... then the kiss i hope... that's what my man will do for me one of these days!! oh yeah he is even going to fix me a bubble bath!!! now that will end up right there being not a emotional relationship... did i cross the emotional relationship by saying my Friend will fix me a bubble bath, and he even said he will be so nice to wash me up!!! what a friend he is!!! yep the best friend ever!!!! lives far far away but he is coming to give me my bath soon!!! whoooo hooooo!!!
It's an emotional affair turning physical. Touching in any form makes it physical. Not just sex.
If it feels like cheating, its probably cheating.
The way I've always heard it, is that if you wouldn't do it in front of your s/o, then its wrong.
emotional or physical, the mental connection is still the same.
Yep it's a cheating.
I say yes. I think emotional relationships are more harmful than physical ones.
Yes, it most certainly is. If you are doing this behind your partner's back, it is an affair.
yes it is and believe me, its not easy to walk away from when your feelings really start to grow.
CHEATER!
If you did any of that with anyone besides your husband/wife, it's an affair.
yes
Do you mean just ';short'; of kissing or did you already kiss him/her? For one thing, confiding to the opposite sex that is not family is a red flag. There is a huge difference between a boy/girl pal and a relationship. You are getting support that you should be getting in your marriage. Once it gets physical, well that's cheating too. I mean, think about it. It's like your ';dating'; this person, getting close, touching, kissing (possibly) before the sex!
Yes, this an affair by any definition.If you continue in an emotional relationship outside of marriage, is that an affair in essence?
Of course it's an affair! How would you feel if you knew your spouse was doing this with someone else? Would you do this in front of your spouse? You've already begun to cross some very serious lines here - apparently the only one left is sex and you've come so very close to that. If you value your marriage at all, you'll run away from this relationship as fast as you can.
Anything you keep secret from your spouse is CHEATING.
Because you are lying to your spouse. You are a coward. Terrified to tell your spouse the truth, because you're afraid of losing your spouse. Not because you love your spouse, but because you would think of yourself as a loser. That is your worst fear. Your spouse is just an ornament you keep in your life to make yourself feel better about yourself. So is your affair partner. You don't really love either of them. Because you hate yourself.
now that would be a dream emotional relationship outside the marriage!!! slow dance, embrace, and massage whoooo hooo, and then caress... then the kiss i hope... that's what my man will do for me one of these days!! oh yeah he is even going to fix me a bubble bath!!! now that will end up right there being not a emotional relationship... did i cross the emotional relationship by saying my Friend will fix me a bubble bath, and he even said he will be so nice to wash me up!!! what a friend he is!!! yep the best friend ever!!!! lives far far away but he is coming to give me my bath soon!!! whoooo hooooo!!!
It's an emotional affair turning physical. Touching in any form makes it physical. Not just sex.
If it feels like cheating, its probably cheating.
The way I've always heard it, is that if you wouldn't do it in front of your s/o, then its wrong.
emotional or physical, the mental connection is still the same.
Yep it's a cheating.
I say yes. I think emotional relationships are more harmful than physical ones.
Yes, it most certainly is. If you are doing this behind your partner's back, it is an affair.
yes it is and believe me, its not easy to walk away from when your feelings really start to grow.
CHEATER!
If you did any of that with anyone besides your husband/wife, it's an affair.
yes
If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Please provide evidence to support.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
No
Bill of rights: freedom of religion.
Although if it were legal you could sue your county judge if he refused to marry you. As a government official he would be obligated to follow the law.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Well I know that isn't true because priests and pastors don't have to marry ANYONE straight or gay (at least at the catholic church)
My parents got turned down after having a baby because they wanted to get married and the priest didn't want to marry them just for the baby.
Besides homosexuality is against MANY religions and they don't have to break their religious beliefs for gays.
No. this is only an ignornant excuse to scare the undeducated. Churches are not required to perform any marriage they do not agree with. Example, catholic churches do not perfrom marriages for couples who are divorced, unless they can prove the the first marriage was invalid.
Private discrimination is quite legal. Places of public accomodation like restaurants and hotels and businesses engaged in interstate commerce are subject to various anti-discrimination laws, but I am not.
Well, since it'd be for religious reasons and they're a religious organization, they can't be sued.
It's in the first amendment.
Civil marriage may be legal in some states. That has no bearing on religious marriages.
No. Freedom of religion.
No
Bill of rights: freedom of religion.
Although if it were legal you could sue your county judge if he refused to marry you. As a government official he would be obligated to follow the law.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Well I know that isn't true because priests and pastors don't have to marry ANYONE straight or gay (at least at the catholic church)
My parents got turned down after having a baby because they wanted to get married and the priest didn't want to marry them just for the baby.
Besides homosexuality is against MANY religions and they don't have to break their religious beliefs for gays.
No. this is only an ignornant excuse to scare the undeducated. Churches are not required to perform any marriage they do not agree with. Example, catholic churches do not perfrom marriages for couples who are divorced, unless they can prove the the first marriage was invalid.
Private discrimination is quite legal. Places of public accomodation like restaurants and hotels and businesses engaged in interstate commerce are subject to various anti-discrimination laws, but I am not.
Well, since it'd be for religious reasons and they're a religious organization, they can't be sued.
It's in the first amendment.
Civil marriage may be legal in some states. That has no bearing on religious marriages.
No. Freedom of religion.
Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
It seems as if they accept it readily if the woman is black and the man white - but if the opposite occurs - sister will start sucking her lips and twisting her neck, why the double standard and what exactly is the issue with it?Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Black women are always complaining that there are not enough, ';worthwhile';, Black men available, so it really burns their @ss when they see Black guys with White chicks.Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Because black men KILL black women who date interracially!
http://rightwingrebel.com/2008/11/10/mar鈥?/a>
hmmm....isnt it a group of black men that killed an interracial couple of a bw/wm? Why don't you google that. And then google the one about a black woman that killed a bm/ww.chemical face peel
Black women are always complaining that there are not enough, ';worthwhile';, Black men available, so it really burns their @ss when they see Black guys with White chicks.Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Because black men KILL black women who date interracially!
http://rightwingrebel.com/2008/11/10/mar鈥?/a>
hmmm....isnt it a group of black men that killed an interracial couple of a bw/wm? Why don't you google that. And then google the one about a black woman that killed a bm/ww.
About my marriage actuall i was born on 17th november is it good or bad?
i was born on 17.11.1982.somebody told me your marriage will be late is it correct or not
and my marriage life is not good so pls help me
and my marriage life is not good so pls help me
Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Whether it was you or your spouse that cheated.Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
I'm a believer in that IF LOVE IS still in your marriage, it can ';in time'; be overcome. NO, you will NEVER forget it, but if things go well from that point on, no more problems, trust issues are healed, which they can be, I DO believe you CAN have a happy marriage once again. It's that deal old word ';time'; that does it ALL. But if there IS a WILLINGNESS on BOTH parties, love is felt again by BOTH parties, then yes, it can be over come. As I said again, it all depends on ';time';. But trust CAN be regained %26amp; worked on by the both of you, it's proved you have NO desire to be w/anyone else, then by all means do give it a fair chance. You have nothing to loose, everything to gain. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...best to you...:)Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Mine would be non existant if either of us cheated.
Of course it does. Your marriage will never be the same.
yepper
Yes
I'm a believer in that IF LOVE IS still in your marriage, it can ';in time'; be overcome. NO, you will NEVER forget it, but if things go well from that point on, no more problems, trust issues are healed, which they can be, I DO believe you CAN have a happy marriage once again. It's that deal old word ';time'; that does it ALL. But if there IS a WILLINGNESS on BOTH parties, love is felt again by BOTH parties, then yes, it can be over come. As I said again, it all depends on ';time';. But trust CAN be regained %26amp; worked on by the both of you, it's proved you have NO desire to be w/anyone else, then by all means do give it a fair chance. You have nothing to loose, everything to gain. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...best to you...:)Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Mine would be non existant if either of us cheated.
Of course it does. Your marriage will never be the same.
yepper
Yes
Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
too close contact (shall we say)?
I'm atheist and have had two long term girlfriends. Would I be allowed to do that if I were Christian or have to marry the first one I met?Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
of course,
it is totally acceptbale to date people before marraige as long as you don't have sex.
the only ones who think that are the ultra conservative churches.
you really ought to look into the love that god offers.,
God Bless you./Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
I'm not aware that the Bible says anything about not dating more than one person before marriage. As you mentioned God wants us to keep sexually pure before marriage.
I'm a Christian and I had two long term boyfriends before i met my husband. Having dated other guys helped me make a better judgment about the one who would make a better husband for me.
If that's what 's keeping you from turning to Christianity, don't let that keep you from considering it.
Yes, Christians can date different people, but only one at a time. And Christians should only date fellow Christians.
2 Corinthians 6:14-15 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
NO, it's forbidden to date!
haha. just kidding.
no. dude, i think you're mistaking us for some wierdo-religious people.
it's not about all the things you CAN'T do.
it's about KNOWING Jesus...
having a relationship with him!
that's the most important
Of course Christians can date. We just can't have pre-marital sex, and once we marry, it's supposed to be for life
yes of course.
I'm atheist and have had two long term girlfriends. Would I be allowed to do that if I were Christian or have to marry the first one I met?Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
of course,
it is totally acceptbale to date people before marraige as long as you don't have sex.
the only ones who think that are the ultra conservative churches.
you really ought to look into the love that god offers.,
God Bless you./Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
I'm not aware that the Bible says anything about not dating more than one person before marriage. As you mentioned God wants us to keep sexually pure before marriage.
I'm a Christian and I had two long term boyfriends before i met my husband. Having dated other guys helped me make a better judgment about the one who would make a better husband for me.
If that's what 's keeping you from turning to Christianity, don't let that keep you from considering it.
Yes, Christians can date different people, but only one at a time. And Christians should only date fellow Christians.
2 Corinthians 6:14-15 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
NO, it's forbidden to date!
haha. just kidding.
no. dude, i think you're mistaking us for some wierdo-religious people.
it's not about all the things you CAN'T do.
it's about KNOWING Jesus...
having a relationship with him!
that's the most important
Of course Christians can date. We just can't have pre-marital sex, and once we marry, it's supposed to be for life
yes of course.
Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
absolutely sure it's the right person. The marriage took place in 1914 would National Archives in Kew have details of it?Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
You could order from the GRO %26amp; ask for reference checking ie if you know bride's father's name, say you only want the cert if this matches. This costs æ‹¢3 as opposed to æ‹¢7 for the cert.
The other option is to try to find the same couple on the next census but you'd have to wait quite a while for one to be available. 1911 is currently the last available census.
The only way to actually view the details on the cert is to buy it, though.
PS The National Archives in Kew will not have a copy.Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
If it took place in a Town close to where you can access the local Register Office, you could try having a chat to the Superintendent Registrar there and explaining the problem of being unsure of the identity. It helps to know which Church or Chapel, or if it was a Register Office marriage, the event took place - different Registers.
I've found our local one and the one in the City where my ancestors originated very helpful.
Avoid visiting a Register Office on a Monday - they are usually very busy after a weekend.
Some parish registers are deposited with local records offices, but on the whole one has to buy the cert.
You could order from the GRO %26amp; ask for reference checking ie if you know bride's father's name, say you only want the cert if this matches. This costs æ‹¢3 as opposed to æ‹¢7 for the cert.
The other option is to try to find the same couple on the next census but you'd have to wait quite a while for one to be available. 1911 is currently the last available census.
The only way to actually view the details on the cert is to buy it, though.
PS The National Archives in Kew will not have a copy.Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
If it took place in a Town close to where you can access the local Register Office, you could try having a chat to the Superintendent Registrar there and explaining the problem of being unsure of the identity. It helps to know which Church or Chapel, or if it was a Register Office marriage, the event took place - different Registers.
I've found our local one and the one in the City where my ancestors originated very helpful.
Avoid visiting a Register Office on a Monday - they are usually very busy after a weekend.
Some parish registers are deposited with local records offices, but on the whole one has to buy the cert.
Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
I have been married for 2 years and recently my husband is spending most of his time with his friends on weekends and we only spend time with him in the evenings. I feel 'am being left holding the baby and I don't think it's right as we hardly do anything as a family.Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
talk to ur husband about it, if he doesnt know this is bothering u how can u as a couple better the situation?Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
That's not right, especially since you know have a baby - your husband should want to spend more time with you.
yep he needs to bring it down to one/2 nights a week with the guys and they use a different house each week.say like for card games watching football.he has a family now and that includes baby.
thats is not fair
weekends should be fore the family %26amp; not for his friends
you need to tell him how you feel
talk to ur husband about it, if he doesnt know this is bothering u how can u as a couple better the situation?Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
That's not right, especially since you know have a baby - your husband should want to spend more time with you.
yep he needs to bring it down to one/2 nights a week with the guys and they use a different house each week.say like for card games watching football.he has a family now and that includes baby.
thats is not fair
weekends should be fore the family %26amp; not for his friends
you need to tell him how you feel
If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Please provide evidence to support.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
No
Bill of rights: freedom of religion.
Although if it were legal you could sue your county judge if he refused to marry you. As a government official he would be obligated to follow the law.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Well I know that isn't true because priests and pastors don't have to marry ANYONE straight or gay (at least at the catholic church)
My parents got turned down after having a baby because they wanted to get married and the priest didn't want to marry them just for the baby.
Besides homosexuality is against MANY religions and they don't have to break their religious beliefs for gays.
No. this is only an ignornant excuse to scare the undeducated. Churches are not required to perform any marriage they do not agree with. Example, catholic churches do not perfrom marriages for couples who are divorced, unless they can prove the the first marriage was invalid.
Private discrimination is quite legal. Places of public accomodation like restaurants and hotels and businesses engaged in interstate commerce are subject to various anti-discrimination laws, but I am not.
Well, since it'd be for religious reasons and they're a religious organization, they can't be sued.
It's in the first amendment.
Civil marriage may be legal in some states. That has no bearing on religious marriages.
No. Freedom of religion.chemical face peel
No
Bill of rights: freedom of religion.
Although if it were legal you could sue your county judge if he refused to marry you. As a government official he would be obligated to follow the law.If gay marriage is legal, can a pastor/priest be sued for discrimination if they refuse to marry a gay couple?
Well I know that isn't true because priests and pastors don't have to marry ANYONE straight or gay (at least at the catholic church)
My parents got turned down after having a baby because they wanted to get married and the priest didn't want to marry them just for the baby.
Besides homosexuality is against MANY religions and they don't have to break their religious beliefs for gays.
No. this is only an ignornant excuse to scare the undeducated. Churches are not required to perform any marriage they do not agree with. Example, catholic churches do not perfrom marriages for couples who are divorced, unless they can prove the the first marriage was invalid.
Private discrimination is quite legal. Places of public accomodation like restaurants and hotels and businesses engaged in interstate commerce are subject to various anti-discrimination laws, but I am not.
Well, since it'd be for religious reasons and they're a religious organization, they can't be sued.
It's in the first amendment.
Civil marriage may be legal in some states. That has no bearing on religious marriages.
No. Freedom of religion.
Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
It seems as if they accept it readily if the woman is black and the man white - but if the opposite occurs - sister will start sucking her lips and twisting her neck, why the double standard and what exactly is the issue with it?Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Black women are always complaining that there are not enough, ';worthwhile';, Black men available, so it really burns their @ss when they see Black guys with White chicks.Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Because black men KILL black women who date interracially!
http://rightwingrebel.com/2008/11/10/mar鈥?/a>
hmmm....isnt it a group of black men that killed an interracial couple of a bw/wm? Why don't you google that. And then google the one about a black woman that killed a bm/ww.
Black women are always complaining that there are not enough, ';worthwhile';, Black men available, so it really burns their @ss when they see Black guys with White chicks.Why are black women so hateful towards interracial dating/marriage when the man is black/biracial?
Because black men KILL black women who date interracially!
http://rightwingrebel.com/2008/11/10/mar鈥?/a>
hmmm....isnt it a group of black men that killed an interracial couple of a bw/wm? Why don't you google that. And then google the one about a black woman that killed a bm/ww.
About my marriage actuall i was born on 17th november is it good or bad?
i was born on 17.11.1982.somebody told me your marriage will be late is it correct or not
and my marriage life is not good so pls help me
and my marriage life is not good so pls help me
Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Whether it was you or your spouse that cheated.Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
I'm a believer in that IF LOVE IS still in your marriage, it can ';in time'; be overcome. NO, you will NEVER forget it, but if things go well from that point on, no more problems, trust issues are healed, which they can be, I DO believe you CAN have a happy marriage once again. It's that deal old word ';time'; that does it ALL. But if there IS a WILLINGNESS on BOTH parties, love is felt again by BOTH parties, then yes, it can be over come. As I said again, it all depends on ';time';. But trust CAN be regained %26amp; worked on by the both of you, it's proved you have NO desire to be w/anyone else, then by all means do give it a fair chance. You have nothing to loose, everything to gain. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...best to you...:)Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Mine would be non existant if either of us cheated.
Of course it does. Your marriage will never be the same.
yepper
Yes
I'm a believer in that IF LOVE IS still in your marriage, it can ';in time'; be overcome. NO, you will NEVER forget it, but if things go well from that point on, no more problems, trust issues are healed, which they can be, I DO believe you CAN have a happy marriage once again. It's that deal old word ';time'; that does it ALL. But if there IS a WILLINGNESS on BOTH parties, love is felt again by BOTH parties, then yes, it can be over come. As I said again, it all depends on ';time';. But trust CAN be regained %26amp; worked on by the both of you, it's proved you have NO desire to be w/anyone else, then by all means do give it a fair chance. You have nothing to loose, everything to gain. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...best to you...:)Did your marriage lose value after infidelity?
Mine would be non existant if either of us cheated.
Of course it does. Your marriage will never be the same.
yepper
Yes
Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
too close contact (shall we say)?
I'm atheist and have had two long term girlfriends. Would I be allowed to do that if I were Christian or have to marry the first one I met?Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
of course,
it is totally acceptbale to date people before marraige as long as you don't have sex.
the only ones who think that are the ultra conservative churches.
you really ought to look into the love that god offers.,
God Bless you./Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
I'm not aware that the Bible says anything about not dating more than one person before marriage. As you mentioned God wants us to keep sexually pure before marriage.
I'm a Christian and I had two long term boyfriends before i met my husband. Having dated other guys helped me make a better judgment about the one who would make a better husband for me.
If that's what 's keeping you from turning to Christianity, don't let that keep you from considering it.
Yes, Christians can date different people, but only one at a time. And Christians should only date fellow Christians.
2 Corinthians 6:14-15 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
NO, it's forbidden to date!
haha. just kidding.
no. dude, i think you're mistaking us for some wierdo-religious people.
it's not about all the things you CAN'T do.
it's about KNOWING Jesus...
having a relationship with him!
that's the most important
Of course Christians can date. We just can't have pre-marital sex, and once we marry, it's supposed to be for life
yes of course.
I'm atheist and have had two long term girlfriends. Would I be allowed to do that if I were Christian or have to marry the first one I met?Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
of course,
it is totally acceptbale to date people before marraige as long as you don't have sex.
the only ones who think that are the ultra conservative churches.
you really ought to look into the love that god offers.,
God Bless you./Are Christians allowed to date various people prior to marriage provided they don't do anything?
I'm not aware that the Bible says anything about not dating more than one person before marriage. As you mentioned God wants us to keep sexually pure before marriage.
I'm a Christian and I had two long term boyfriends before i met my husband. Having dated other guys helped me make a better judgment about the one who would make a better husband for me.
If that's what 's keeping you from turning to Christianity, don't let that keep you from considering it.
Yes, Christians can date different people, but only one at a time. And Christians should only date fellow Christians.
2 Corinthians 6:14-15 Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
What accord has Christ with Belial? Or what portion does a believer share with an unbeliever?
NO, it's forbidden to date!
haha. just kidding.
no. dude, i think you're mistaking us for some wierdo-religious people.
it's not about all the things you CAN'T do.
it's about KNOWING Jesus...
having a relationship with him!
that's the most important
Of course Christians can date. We just can't have pre-marital sex, and once we marry, it's supposed to be for life
yes of course.
Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
absolutely sure it's the right person. The marriage took place in 1914 would National Archives in Kew have details of it?Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
You could order from the GRO %26amp; ask for reference checking ie if you know bride's father's name, say you only want the cert if this matches. This costs æ‹¢3 as opposed to æ‹¢7 for the cert.
The other option is to try to find the same couple on the next census but you'd have to wait quite a while for one to be available. 1911 is currently the last available census.
The only way to actually view the details on the cert is to buy it, though.
PS The National Archives in Kew will not have a copy.Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
If it took place in a Town close to where you can access the local Register Office, you could try having a chat to the Superintendent Registrar there and explaining the problem of being unsure of the identity. It helps to know which Church or Chapel, or if it was a Register Office marriage, the event took place - different Registers.
I've found our local one and the one in the City where my ancestors originated very helpful.
Avoid visiting a Register Office on a Monday - they are usually very busy after a weekend.
Some parish registers are deposited with local records offices, but on the whole one has to buy the cert.
You could order from the GRO %26amp; ask for reference checking ie if you know bride's father's name, say you only want the cert if this matches. This costs æ‹¢3 as opposed to æ‹¢7 for the cert.
The other option is to try to find the same couple on the next census but you'd have to wait quite a while for one to be available. 1911 is currently the last available census.
The only way to actually view the details on the cert is to buy it, though.
PS The National Archives in Kew will not have a copy.Is there anywhere I can view details of a marriage cert without have to purchase a copy of it as I am not?
If it took place in a Town close to where you can access the local Register Office, you could try having a chat to the Superintendent Registrar there and explaining the problem of being unsure of the identity. It helps to know which Church or Chapel, or if it was a Register Office marriage, the event took place - different Registers.
I've found our local one and the one in the City where my ancestors originated very helpful.
Avoid visiting a Register Office on a Monday - they are usually very busy after a weekend.
Some parish registers are deposited with local records offices, but on the whole one has to buy the cert.
Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
I have been married for 2 years and recently my husband is spending most of his time with his friends on weekends and we only spend time with him in the evenings. I feel 'am being left holding the baby and I don't think it's right as we hardly do anything as a family.Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
yep he needs to bring it down to one/2 nights a week with the guys and they use a different house each week.say like for card games watching football.he has a family now and that includes baby.Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
talk to ur husband about it, if he doesnt know this is bothering u how can u as a couple better the situation?
That's not right, especially since you know have a baby - your husband should want to spend more time with you.
thats is not fair
weekends should be fore the family %26amp; not for his friends
you need to tell him how you feelchemical face peel
yep he needs to bring it down to one/2 nights a week with the guys and they use a different house each week.say like for card games watching football.he has a family now and that includes baby.Who much space is appropriate between partners in a marriage? ?
talk to ur husband about it, if he doesnt know this is bothering u how can u as a couple better the situation?
That's not right, especially since you know have a baby - your husband should want to spend more time with you.
thats is not fair
weekends should be fore the family %26amp; not for his friends
you need to tell him how you feel
How to maintain a relationship,between a man and a woman to end up in a successful marriage?
.How to maintain a relationship,between a man and a woman to end up in a successful marriage?
I might be wrong, but I think if you really ';click';, then there's little or no maintenance. All there is to it is finding the right person.How to maintain a relationship,between a man and a woman to end up in a successful marriage?
First of all be friends, you will find couples who are friends stay together longer. Because you want to learn to like each other, not just be passionately in love.
communication and time spent together is the biggest thing
Every relationship in the world has to have 2 people who are willing to work at being a team. My only advise are these three words 1. communication 2. respect 3. love
without those 3 aspects your relationship will end up in the pooper.
My hubby and I are going through the seven-year-itch right now. Trust me, there are some hard times in the first decade. Here are the rules we have agreed to follow:
1. We are best friends. Sometimes, friends can come between you. It's good to think of him first, after the kids, but before anyone else.
2. We are each other's counselors. If one of us has a problem, it's a joint problem. If I have trouble with my family or my job, I always know he is my sounding board, and visa-versa.
3. We make time for each other. Whether it's 15 minutes or 2 hours a day, it all counts. I stay at home, and I make it a rule not to have anyone over for at least an hour after he gets home from work.
4. We always go to bed together. One of us may get up, but we always have 20 minutes or so to talk, and if love is in the air, we have time to start to express it!
Hope these hints help! Good Luck to you!
Take care for each other... everyday, no matter what... and continue doing after the marriage...
honesty, respect for each other, be ready to compromise
as far as ';if you click then there'll be little or no maintance'; don't believe that. a long happy marriage takes A LOT work from both people
I've been married for 9 years, and I have a 12 month old. What works for me and my husband is honesty and communication. We are best friends and so we can tell each other everything. There's nothing we don't tell each other. Also, we used to fight a lot more the first few years of marriage... the key is always to resolve things. When you're in the heat of the moment, try to separate (different rooms...so long as you're not in each other's faces). When both of you are calm, then you resolve the problem.
My husband and I also went to marriage counseling the first year. We each had baggage, and when we brought it to the marriage, so getting counseling helped us out deal with that.
COMMUNICATION !!!! That is so important. Be best friends and lovers. Dont always try to win a fight. Say sorry when you need to, you dont need to be stubborn with your mate. Let him know whats on your mind when its good or bad. They are not mind readers and sometimes i think we expect them to be. Men think different then women, so except that. Make sure that when sex is going that you both satisfy each other, keep an opened mind and try lots of exciting thing together. Keep going on dates, especially after you have kids. I could go on and on but figure some things out for yourself because that can be fun
be open...always have a good communication.....
Always be honest with each other, learn to stop sweating the small stuff and stop turning little things that either of you may not like about each other into a Mountain.
Communication is very important also never argue,instead have a sit down talk about what's going on. Don't bring jealousy, greed, control factors, I'm always right and your always wrong mentally, stop judging people by who you were last with and if there ever comes a time when Mental, Physical or Psychological abuse occurs it is time to get out and consider your self lucky to have lived through it ( I Am )cause most Men and Women don't. You can't change a person into who you want them to be and Vi's-verse, a person will only change when they want to.
Through my years of Therapy I have learned to say (You didn't make me mad at you) I got mad at you for something you did. You are the Only One that can get Happy, Sad, Angry, at what other people have done. You control that part of you, No One Else can. I hope in some ways that this will help a lot of you.
I might be wrong, but I think if you really ';click';, then there's little or no maintenance. All there is to it is finding the right person.How to maintain a relationship,between a man and a woman to end up in a successful marriage?
First of all be friends, you will find couples who are friends stay together longer. Because you want to learn to like each other, not just be passionately in love.
communication and time spent together is the biggest thing
Every relationship in the world has to have 2 people who are willing to work at being a team. My only advise are these three words 1. communication 2. respect 3. love
without those 3 aspects your relationship will end up in the pooper.
My hubby and I are going through the seven-year-itch right now. Trust me, there are some hard times in the first decade. Here are the rules we have agreed to follow:
1. We are best friends. Sometimes, friends can come between you. It's good to think of him first, after the kids, but before anyone else.
2. We are each other's counselors. If one of us has a problem, it's a joint problem. If I have trouble with my family or my job, I always know he is my sounding board, and visa-versa.
3. We make time for each other. Whether it's 15 minutes or 2 hours a day, it all counts. I stay at home, and I make it a rule not to have anyone over for at least an hour after he gets home from work.
4. We always go to bed together. One of us may get up, but we always have 20 minutes or so to talk, and if love is in the air, we have time to start to express it!
Hope these hints help! Good Luck to you!
Take care for each other... everyday, no matter what... and continue doing after the marriage...
honesty, respect for each other, be ready to compromise
as far as ';if you click then there'll be little or no maintance'; don't believe that. a long happy marriage takes A LOT work from both people
I've been married for 9 years, and I have a 12 month old. What works for me and my husband is honesty and communication. We are best friends and so we can tell each other everything. There's nothing we don't tell each other. Also, we used to fight a lot more the first few years of marriage... the key is always to resolve things. When you're in the heat of the moment, try to separate (different rooms...so long as you're not in each other's faces). When both of you are calm, then you resolve the problem.
My husband and I also went to marriage counseling the first year. We each had baggage, and when we brought it to the marriage, so getting counseling helped us out deal with that.
COMMUNICATION !!!! That is so important. Be best friends and lovers. Dont always try to win a fight. Say sorry when you need to, you dont need to be stubborn with your mate. Let him know whats on your mind when its good or bad. They are not mind readers and sometimes i think we expect them to be. Men think different then women, so except that. Make sure that when sex is going that you both satisfy each other, keep an opened mind and try lots of exciting thing together. Keep going on dates, especially after you have kids. I could go on and on but figure some things out for yourself because that can be fun
be open...always have a good communication.....
Always be honest with each other, learn to stop sweating the small stuff and stop turning little things that either of you may not like about each other into a Mountain.
Communication is very important also never argue,instead have a sit down talk about what's going on. Don't bring jealousy, greed, control factors, I'm always right and your always wrong mentally, stop judging people by who you were last with and if there ever comes a time when Mental, Physical or Psychological abuse occurs it is time to get out and consider your self lucky to have lived through it ( I Am )cause most Men and Women don't. You can't change a person into who you want them to be and Vi's-verse, a person will only change when they want to.
Through my years of Therapy I have learned to say (You didn't make me mad at you) I got mad at you for something you did. You are the Only One that can get Happy, Sad, Angry, at what other people have done. You control that part of you, No One Else can. I hope in some ways that this will help a lot of you.
What are the good ways to liven up a marriage?
We're in our 40s. We've been married for 17 years now and things are humming along. We've been respectful and responsible in our actions towards each other, and we love, accept and support each other. Of course, we also squabble, but the bottomline is that we are comitted to each other. We also love our kids (9 and 11) to the bone. I wouldn't trade my life for anything else. The question then is, is this all? Where have the spark, the romance, the flush of emotions gone to? Is this it? Would love to hear from people out there.What are the good ways to liven up a marriage?
dis is a life cycle my dear...we just have to accept d facts.
the sparks, the romance, d flush of emotions r still well kept in ur treasure box. they will nv be robbed away from u both. is always buried deep in ur hearts. neither of u have remembered to dig it up till u pop up dis question.
is time and i mean now....is time to open up d treasure box u always have longed for. time and kids have clouded tat little memory where d treasure was hidden.
open up ur mind and unlock the treasure in ur hearts and u will c and feel dose tings tat u both have long missed.
cheers!!!What are the good ways to liven up a marriage?
Since you ';love your wife very much and will do whatever it takes for a happy marriage,'; you need to be clear about what is really happening between the two of you if you want to put your marriage back on the right track.
You and your wife have problems in communication. Beyond the problem of communication, there is the problem of your feeling differently about each other. Your wife ';loves you as a friend and not as a husband'; while you love your wife both as friend and as a wife.
Go clubbing and get crazy drunk together. Drinking with your friends is one thing, but getting sloppy drunk with your mate is completely different and fun. It's also a sort of bonding experience. It's kind of fun to get kicked out as a couple for being too loud or too drunk or too ';can't-wait-to-get-home.'; Uhm...just don't drive, get a cab.
Try something new together. My wife and I took dance lessons and started the habit of sharing a dance every morning before we leave for work. To liven up the sex life try doing it in new places... the roof of the house one cloudy night was very exciting, but take a quilt- shingles are painful.
Find something around the house that they have to do but hate doing it and you do it for them as a surprise. Find a park that rents log cabins for the weekend. Walk through the park. A computer game. Go to a church function or crash a wedding. Visit something famouse.
Take a romantic trip for two, a cruise anyplace but go alone together.....If that doesn't do it for you, then something else is wrong your not telling us.
I swear to you that someone is going to get all pi$$y with my responce. But I dont care =) THREESOME! Now I bet you that Joe Jesus Jr. is going to come along and set me straight
BJ BJ and more BJs
sex
17 years is a long time to be with someone.That just shows how you both are commited to one another.
Relationships are really sensitive and need to be taken one moment at a time its only normal to squabble once in a while and respect is paramount.
When we end up seeing one person everyday of our lives its only human to start feeling a little laid back.
but remember you and your partner must keep the flame burning.
The shortcut to this is just play the girlfriend boyfriend game when you were still seeing each other and treasured the small things in life,try and go out more often with each other and spending some quite moments outside home and reminisce the nice times that you have spent.
Talk to each other on how your days went and any fears and emotions that you are holding back this will help cement your relationship further.
The spark the romance and the emotions are all there its just that the two of you are not commited to other things try and concentrate on each other and enjoy each others company.
Hope you are passionate once again.
love s
Think all marriages go through this type of thing, before you get married you have to work very hard to show each other how much you want to be together but once married you have caught each other so you feel you do not have to work so hard and that is fine to start with but then you start to miss that real feeling of being wanted.
You cant go back as that was that stage in your life and you have moved on but what you can do is look at ways of making it more fun again and having time for each other. Children always take a lot of your time and energy and you tend to take a back seat to each other. Well now is the time to re-look at what you need to do to spice up your life.
Going out more is a good starting point, a nice meal, the cinema, a short break away without the children. In the short term spice up your sex life be a bit more daring try new things, be sexy even when not in bed at night. BUT first talk to each other see what you both fancy doing.
dis is a life cycle my dear...we just have to accept d facts.
the sparks, the romance, d flush of emotions r still well kept in ur treasure box. they will nv be robbed away from u both. is always buried deep in ur hearts. neither of u have remembered to dig it up till u pop up dis question.
is time and i mean now....is time to open up d treasure box u always have longed for. time and kids have clouded tat little memory where d treasure was hidden.
open up ur mind and unlock the treasure in ur hearts and u will c and feel dose tings tat u both have long missed.
cheers!!!What are the good ways to liven up a marriage?
Since you ';love your wife very much and will do whatever it takes for a happy marriage,'; you need to be clear about what is really happening between the two of you if you want to put your marriage back on the right track.
You and your wife have problems in communication. Beyond the problem of communication, there is the problem of your feeling differently about each other. Your wife ';loves you as a friend and not as a husband'; while you love your wife both as friend and as a wife.
Go clubbing and get crazy drunk together. Drinking with your friends is one thing, but getting sloppy drunk with your mate is completely different and fun. It's also a sort of bonding experience. It's kind of fun to get kicked out as a couple for being too loud or too drunk or too ';can't-wait-to-get-home.'; Uhm...just don't drive, get a cab.
Try something new together. My wife and I took dance lessons and started the habit of sharing a dance every morning before we leave for work. To liven up the sex life try doing it in new places... the roof of the house one cloudy night was very exciting, but take a quilt- shingles are painful.
Find something around the house that they have to do but hate doing it and you do it for them as a surprise. Find a park that rents log cabins for the weekend. Walk through the park. A computer game. Go to a church function or crash a wedding. Visit something famouse.
Take a romantic trip for two, a cruise anyplace but go alone together.....If that doesn't do it for you, then something else is wrong your not telling us.
I swear to you that someone is going to get all pi$$y with my responce. But I dont care =) THREESOME! Now I bet you that Joe Jesus Jr. is going to come along and set me straight
BJ BJ and more BJs
sex
17 years is a long time to be with someone.That just shows how you both are commited to one another.
Relationships are really sensitive and need to be taken one moment at a time its only normal to squabble once in a while and respect is paramount.
When we end up seeing one person everyday of our lives its only human to start feeling a little laid back.
but remember you and your partner must keep the flame burning.
The shortcut to this is just play the girlfriend boyfriend game when you were still seeing each other and treasured the small things in life,try and go out more often with each other and spending some quite moments outside home and reminisce the nice times that you have spent.
Talk to each other on how your days went and any fears and emotions that you are holding back this will help cement your relationship further.
The spark the romance and the emotions are all there its just that the two of you are not commited to other things try and concentrate on each other and enjoy each others company.
Hope you are passionate once again.
love s
Think all marriages go through this type of thing, before you get married you have to work very hard to show each other how much you want to be together but once married you have caught each other so you feel you do not have to work so hard and that is fine to start with but then you start to miss that real feeling of being wanted.
You cant go back as that was that stage in your life and you have moved on but what you can do is look at ways of making it more fun again and having time for each other. Children always take a lot of your time and energy and you tend to take a back seat to each other. Well now is the time to re-look at what you need to do to spice up your life.
Going out more is a good starting point, a nice meal, the cinema, a short break away without the children. In the short term spice up your sex life be a bit more daring try new things, be sexy even when not in bed at night. BUT first talk to each other see what you both fancy doing.
How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
We havent been married long but have SO MUCH STRESS in our lives that we dont ever make time to ACTUALLY MAKE LOVE. How can I bring back the romance? How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
I think you need to forget the sex for a minute and go RIGHT back to the beginning; start courting again! Set up dates with each other and get really dressed up. Go out to dinner and the movies and FLIRT like you used to! Remind yourselves how much you love each other. THEN you can start bringing the sex back.How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
kk i have two options
you could either dedicate a while day where either youself or both of you take the day off if you can afford too that is
so you can get things ready for the day
basically wear your best laundray, laver the bed in rose petals and any other touches such as your favourite songs and mood setters
hopefully you will get home earlier than him so put a note on the door (make sure it deosnt fall of please)
that say follow the notes and do as i say
then inside have a little table with a glass of wine on it oe champagne if you want
then have a note next to it saying goto the bathroom
(note this is for him to put on the condom so if you dont use condoms just put you know where to come on the note)
then in the bathroom have a condom with a note saying you know what to do and where to come
then ill leave the rest to you
now this is the version where you come home from work and you have sometime to prepare or you could take the day off and prepare
hope i helped
Can you send him silly/kinky texts on his phone...and then follow through with them later?
Make dinner in an apron, and only an apron (i really do this sometimes!).
If you don't make dinner, make dinner!
Make him a dessert he loves. I researched ganache and made my long term b/f a 3 layer chocolate cake w/ ganache and cherries (his fave, not mine!)
Tell him you want to go to a carnival, or a hike in the park, or go far far away and do it in the woods.
Or go out to a restaurant and have too many drinks and laugh laugh laugh...
Take it from a pro. I have kids, and boy can things get hectic then. We are so busy running around doing our jobs, playing with the kids, entertaining them and cleaning up and cleaning up and cleaning up....whew!! When is there time for love? Well...everyday as far as I'm concerned...but you always have to try try try. And that is what marriage is about.
There are lots of things that I do. I'll turn off the tv and just strip in the living room. He never says no to that. Sometimes we will watch tv cuz we're exhausted until late and then go to bed and no nookie cuz we're too tired....we essentially replace sex with tv....yuck!!
I also do the apron/dinner thing, when the kids aren't home.
I also dress up. I'll wear his button up shirt and tie and nothing else but an awesome pair of heels and meet him at the door (when the kids aren't home)
I wake him up in the middle of the night, or a half hour before the alarm goes off in the morning with a little oral service. That gets things moving.
I send him naughty pics of me to his cell phone while he's at work, and he sends them to me too!! We text dirty things too. It's awesome. You feel awkward at first, but when you see how much it turns your husband on you will feel great, sexy, and loved.
Don't wait for him to come on to you, and don't give him little hints that you're in the mood, they don't get those...they are men. You have to be obvious. Just start massaging him and give him a deep kiss in the middle of a sentence while he's talking.
Well...that stuff isn't so much romance, I guess. But these things are a great way to spice things up when there is no time for romance.
Whenever we get a break (which isn't often because we are so busy) we are romantic with walks on the beach, wrestling matches, quiet dinners out, and scary movie cuddle time at the theater. But spice things up in between these romantic dates.
Good Luck!
Well it seems like the two of you need to make time for just the two of you.
Try to go back to the way things were when you were courting, and see how he likes it. Try looking sexy when he's at home instead of just walking around in unattractive pajamas.
try going places...so have a romantic dinner where you had your first date...or watch a romantic movie together in bed. Think about how your relationship first started and improvise.
Leave all the stress and to-do's at the door and just relax. Turn off the phones. Light some candles.
what does romance have to do with marriage?
you already got him to commit already, now you dont have to do anything.
Variety my friend VARIETY!!
I think you need to forget the sex for a minute and go RIGHT back to the beginning; start courting again! Set up dates with each other and get really dressed up. Go out to dinner and the movies and FLIRT like you used to! Remind yourselves how much you love each other. THEN you can start bringing the sex back.How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
kk i have two options
you could either dedicate a while day where either youself or both of you take the day off if you can afford too that is
so you can get things ready for the day
basically wear your best laundray, laver the bed in rose petals and any other touches such as your favourite songs and mood setters
hopefully you will get home earlier than him so put a note on the door (make sure it deosnt fall of please)
that say follow the notes and do as i say
then inside have a little table with a glass of wine on it oe champagne if you want
then have a note next to it saying goto the bathroom
(note this is for him to put on the condom so if you dont use condoms just put you know where to come on the note)
then in the bathroom have a condom with a note saying you know what to do and where to come
then ill leave the rest to you
now this is the version where you come home from work and you have sometime to prepare or you could take the day off and prepare
hope i helped
Can you send him silly/kinky texts on his phone...and then follow through with them later?
Make dinner in an apron, and only an apron (i really do this sometimes!).
If you don't make dinner, make dinner!
Make him a dessert he loves. I researched ganache and made my long term b/f a 3 layer chocolate cake w/ ganache and cherries (his fave, not mine!)
Tell him you want to go to a carnival, or a hike in the park, or go far far away and do it in the woods.
Or go out to a restaurant and have too many drinks and laugh laugh laugh...
Take it from a pro. I have kids, and boy can things get hectic then. We are so busy running around doing our jobs, playing with the kids, entertaining them and cleaning up and cleaning up and cleaning up....whew!! When is there time for love? Well...everyday as far as I'm concerned...but you always have to try try try. And that is what marriage is about.
There are lots of things that I do. I'll turn off the tv and just strip in the living room. He never says no to that. Sometimes we will watch tv cuz we're exhausted until late and then go to bed and no nookie cuz we're too tired....we essentially replace sex with tv....yuck!!
I also do the apron/dinner thing, when the kids aren't home.
I also dress up. I'll wear his button up shirt and tie and nothing else but an awesome pair of heels and meet him at the door (when the kids aren't home)
I wake him up in the middle of the night, or a half hour before the alarm goes off in the morning with a little oral service. That gets things moving.
I send him naughty pics of me to his cell phone while he's at work, and he sends them to me too!! We text dirty things too. It's awesome. You feel awkward at first, but when you see how much it turns your husband on you will feel great, sexy, and loved.
Don't wait for him to come on to you, and don't give him little hints that you're in the mood, they don't get those...they are men. You have to be obvious. Just start massaging him and give him a deep kiss in the middle of a sentence while he's talking.
Well...that stuff isn't so much romance, I guess. But these things are a great way to spice things up when there is no time for romance.
Whenever we get a break (which isn't often because we are so busy) we are romantic with walks on the beach, wrestling matches, quiet dinners out, and scary movie cuddle time at the theater. But spice things up in between these romantic dates.
Good Luck!
Well it seems like the two of you need to make time for just the two of you.
Try to go back to the way things were when you were courting, and see how he likes it. Try looking sexy when he's at home instead of just walking around in unattractive pajamas.
try going places...so have a romantic dinner where you had your first date...or watch a romantic movie together in bed. Think about how your relationship first started and improvise.
Leave all the stress and to-do's at the door and just relax. Turn off the phones. Light some candles.
what does romance have to do with marriage?
you already got him to commit already, now you dont have to do anything.
Variety my friend VARIETY!!
How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? I'm in a loving marriage but am scared of the life change.
I don't think any one is really ever ready to become someone's mom or dad. I think we get as close as we can and just go for it. There will always be fear about bring a new life into this world, but you just have to know that with the responsibility it is worth it. You just have trust in yourself that you will be a good mom or dad and learn from your mistakes as a parent.
goodluck I hope this helped in some way.How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? I'm in a loving marriage but am scared of the life change.
When i found out i was pregnant i was scared, I didnt know what to do.... but when we brought her home all my fears went away. Its hard and it is an adjustment because instead of only worrying about yourself, now you have this tiny human being that is totally dependent on you for everything... but all the stress and sleepless nights are worth it, because when she smiles at me and says '; i love you';, well .... nothing else matters. You will be fine, whether you wait 4 years or have one this year , you will be just fine.How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? I'm in a loving marriage but am scared of the life change.
ur never really ready for s child but until it happens and it may be life changing but the experience of it is great
i am a mother and i wouldnt change it for anything
You just do it. No one is actually 100% ready. If you are actually scared instead of just being a little aprehensive, then wait a little while. I'm almost 30, due in April with #2, I have a 3 year old daughter, my husband and I have been married for 5 1/2 years (together for 11) and some days I wonder am I ready for #2. It's normal!
If you don't know if you are ready, then you are not ready.
To tell you the truth, I'm not sure when you know you're ready. I mean, you love your marriage relationship, and you are happy with the way things are going now, right? Well, then why would you want to change anything? It's not that simple. You are smart enough to realize that having a baby will not be just some extra thing. It will be a major life change. And I mean MAJOR. Once you have a child, your life as you now know it, will be over. You will be able to have a life after you have a child, but it will not be the same.
I have been married for a little over a month and we are both ready to have a baby together. We are going to wait a little longer before we start trying, but we are definitely ready. But then again, I already had a child who was 2 1/2 years old when my husband and I started dating. So, I had a head start and I know what lies ahead.
All I can say is for you to go and talk to your spouse, and I mean seriously talk. Make a list of pros and cons if you have to. If you both want a child and you both know as much as you can about what it all entails, then all you have to do is decide to do it.
I'd say if you're scared then you aren't ready.
But having said that you're never truly ready for your first. I'd say when you have a surplus income of $500 - $1000/month then you're truly financially ready and when you're not scared, but excited then you're emotionally ready. That's not to say you shouldn't have a baby before that, but you will have to buy diapers, etc. and pay for daycare..You should also be married for a couple of years first.
Awwww, I was in the same boat as you before my husband and I decided to have a baby. Your life does drastically change and I don't think I know of anyone who is really ready for a baby. The thought of change can be scary. I will tell you that I would never go back....the change is great and when you finally do have a baby....you will love them more than anything. Good luck!!!
goodluck I hope this helped in some way.How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? I'm in a loving marriage but am scared of the life change.
When i found out i was pregnant i was scared, I didnt know what to do.... but when we brought her home all my fears went away. Its hard and it is an adjustment because instead of only worrying about yourself, now you have this tiny human being that is totally dependent on you for everything... but all the stress and sleepless nights are worth it, because when she smiles at me and says '; i love you';, well .... nothing else matters. You will be fine, whether you wait 4 years or have one this year , you will be just fine.How do you know when you are ready to have a baby? I'm in a loving marriage but am scared of the life change.
ur never really ready for s child but until it happens and it may be life changing but the experience of it is great
i am a mother and i wouldnt change it for anything
You just do it. No one is actually 100% ready. If you are actually scared instead of just being a little aprehensive, then wait a little while. I'm almost 30, due in April with #2, I have a 3 year old daughter, my husband and I have been married for 5 1/2 years (together for 11) and some days I wonder am I ready for #2. It's normal!
If you don't know if you are ready, then you are not ready.
To tell you the truth, I'm not sure when you know you're ready. I mean, you love your marriage relationship, and you are happy with the way things are going now, right? Well, then why would you want to change anything? It's not that simple. You are smart enough to realize that having a baby will not be just some extra thing. It will be a major life change. And I mean MAJOR. Once you have a child, your life as you now know it, will be over. You will be able to have a life after you have a child, but it will not be the same.
I have been married for a little over a month and we are both ready to have a baby together. We are going to wait a little longer before we start trying, but we are definitely ready. But then again, I already had a child who was 2 1/2 years old when my husband and I started dating. So, I had a head start and I know what lies ahead.
All I can say is for you to go and talk to your spouse, and I mean seriously talk. Make a list of pros and cons if you have to. If you both want a child and you both know as much as you can about what it all entails, then all you have to do is decide to do it.
I'd say if you're scared then you aren't ready.
But having said that you're never truly ready for your first. I'd say when you have a surplus income of $500 - $1000/month then you're truly financially ready and when you're not scared, but excited then you're emotionally ready. That's not to say you shouldn't have a baby before that, but you will have to buy diapers, etc. and pay for daycare..You should also be married for a couple of years first.
Awwww, I was in the same boat as you before my husband and I decided to have a baby. Your life does drastically change and I don't think I know of anyone who is really ready for a baby. The thought of change can be scary. I will tell you that I would never go back....the change is great and when you finally do have a baby....you will love them more than anything. Good luck!!!
Girls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
Im getting married in approx 2 months...it wud b an arrange marriage...so guyz and gals ...what all attributes should i look for in the girl....is there thing else i need to know about her other normal things....How to make sure she's a virgin? any help regarding marriage article is appreciated....thank u all.Girls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
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forgot about virginity . stupid question :: because ........ virginity is something now a days ......when you met someone and she dont have feeling for anyone else ...dont look in her past ..........
evrybody did some mistake may be she did one so .........forgive her for tht without asking .
idle girl quality
1. love ....to love you n ur family
2.honesty.....to make you feel secure whole life
3.respect. for her parent and for your parents
4.strenght.... any circumtrances she wont leave you n be with u n become ur strength .
5.she can bear pain....take pain on her ...dont let you feel coz thats the best quality
6.smile for you ..... she must smile for you to relive your ............stress ...if she not smile then you smile for her
hope this help
need anything more mail me
avanish_cool@yahoo.co.inGirls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
You need to check for compatibility. Will the two of you get along well? What are her interests and plans for the future? Does she take responsibility for her actions and can stand the ground when there are things needed to be done as opposed to pushing them off or procrastinating?
There is a medical test that can be administered to prove she's a virgin, but it's so easy for a woman to break her hymen without the need of intercourse that virginity isn't necessarily as an essential to marriage.
Hmmm. I will leave the virginity issue alone - I can't really help you with that.
The only advice I can really give you, if it can be of use, is to see how she behaves around children and animals. If she is kind and gentle with them, you can be sure that she has a softer side to her character, and will treat you and your family with kindness.
Spend a little time with her mother, and get to know her. You can use her as a gauge to know how your new wife will be as she ages. It's not true in all cases, but many times, a girl does become more like her mother when she is married for a number of years.
Talk to the girl! It's pretty obvious, isn't it? Find out what she likes to do. Is she creative - does she paint, does she like gardening, etc? She will be happy at home. Is she more active, outgoing, sporty? She will probably be somewhat career oriented and like a busy social life.
Good Luck!
First of all, there's not way to ';make sure'; a girl is a virgin, and even so, who cares if she is? That shouldn't be a concrete reason to marry someone.
You should look for kindness, compassion, honesty, and affection in someone you chose to marry. Also, co-operation and a willingness to compromise will make any marriage run smoothly.
arrange marriage?.. gee. i think what matters is she's a good person all in all.
you may not know if she's a virgin or not for sure.
anyway..here's some of the things that i think you should look for..eventho some of them you might not know unless you be with her for a period of time..
loves you.
GOOD PERSONAL HYGEINE..(very important. that goes to guys as well.)
not crazy.
trustworthy.
values relationships and family.
makes wise decisions.
manages money well.
Fun.Friendly.Flirts(only with you)
Caring.
loves kids.
hope it goes well.
wow...looks like you've got a recipe for a happy marriage already.
Make sure she can cook and clean. And divorce her if she doesn't produce you with a son.
You know you can take her to a doctor and have her examined to make sure she is a virgin.
And make sure you lock all the doors and windows when you leave the house, we don't want her escaping now do we...
I would say think whether you are eligible person for this marriage. Don't think about virgin or other attributes. Just Love her to get them married, then all other will be Lovable, then Life will be Happy...
If you have these kind of questions in your mind during your marrinage you will not be happy at any time. Be Cooooool
All the Best for your Happy married Life.
sweet natured - honest. has ability to compromise. kindness. ability to communicate with her and her with you. easy going nature. doesnt find fault too easily. not quick to anger.
dont worry about the virgin thing too much (unless it really is very important to you)- without being too crude -there can be advantages to marrying someone who has a little experience in the past.
wow marriage is a major commitment and amazing step in life - good luck and hope you find your ideal life partner
I would think the following would be important:
* Communication skills - if you can't understand or talk to each other then the relationship is going to have problems
* Listening Skills - you need to be able to listen to and understand what your partner is wanting
* Future plans - need to be similar to yours or at least a little flexible
* Ideal Family - what plans does she have in regards to having a family and does this idea fit in with yours
These days it is better u know her personally. So do not marry in haste. Take some gap in between engagement %26amp; marriage %26amp; pass time with her.
U know better what u want in ur wife.
Some husbands like there wife to be housewife only, in that case she must be williing to take responsibility of house. Some husbands are miser %26amp; do not want to keep any maid servent while wives want to keep as they dso not know cooking washing, tailoring etc.. this creates rifts. Some wives do not want to live with in-laws while boys like.
I think ur hobbies must match.
If u like films, books, partying , religion or touring, or music, she must also like. So u must clear it.
Dude, this is odd. You can't make sure she's a virgin, and if that is your priority then I don't know what to tell you. You are the only one who knows what type of people you like and get along with. If it's arranged, does it even matter? You can't change her.
virginity ain't a taboo anymore... sadly, most arranged or fixed marriages are not that successful.. almost half of it end in divorce. what you need to know about her is her innermost attitude.. is she the wife material?? could she be a good wife?? can she stick to fidelity?? it's up to you to know. good luck, folk!
A doctor report on her virginity.
enthusiastic
obedient
faithful
smart
good conversationalist
pretty
nice breasts
good physical condition
nice teeth
no glasses
no family history of heriditory diseases
good financial state
good home management skills
marketable job skills
Easy to get along with family
Knows how to drive and operate basic machinery
Artistic
No excess bagage
Wants to marry you.
what difference would it make it the marriage is arranged, it won't matter what to look for, you are sol.................
If its an arranged marriage, do you have a choice? Are you going to be seeing her before the ceremony? Can you say no?
U should be asking this to married husbands rather then to girls....
Look for a beautiful girl (as per your own perception) that fit your life style and family values.
u should watch out her family and friends... if its an arranged marrage do trust ur parents... n have faith in almighty.... as womens charcter can be well predicted after the weddding as far as i know.... anycase all the very best for ur future!!!Go on men....
Friendship and the ablility to communicate is the most valuable thing for a marriage.
if she appreciates you if sha can cook if shes clean how she is around animals and kids
good luck
its better u know things personally not any thing like virginity or stuff cos it may hurt her feelings !!! there are ways to test all this ! but Its better to know things verbally !
Stick your finger in her, then you'll know
.....Idiot.
no idea but cool name raul. im raqhim
see
forgot about virginity . stupid question :: because ........ virginity is something now a days ......when you met someone and she dont have feeling for anyone else ...dont look in her past ..........
evrybody did some mistake may be she did one so .........forgive her for tht without asking .
idle girl quality
1. love ....to love you n ur family
2.honesty.....to make you feel secure whole life
3.respect. for her parent and for your parents
4.strenght.... any circumtrances she wont leave you n be with u n become ur strength .
5.she can bear pain....take pain on her ...dont let you feel coz thats the best quality
6.smile for you ..... she must smile for you to relive your ............stress ...if she not smile then you smile for her
hope this help
need anything more mail me
avanish_cool@yahoo.co.inGirls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
You need to check for compatibility. Will the two of you get along well? What are her interests and plans for the future? Does she take responsibility for her actions and can stand the ground when there are things needed to be done as opposed to pushing them off or procrastinating?
There is a medical test that can be administered to prove she's a virgin, but it's so easy for a woman to break her hymen without the need of intercourse that virginity isn't necessarily as an essential to marriage.
Hmmm. I will leave the virginity issue alone - I can't really help you with that.
The only advice I can really give you, if it can be of use, is to see how she behaves around children and animals. If she is kind and gentle with them, you can be sure that she has a softer side to her character, and will treat you and your family with kindness.
Spend a little time with her mother, and get to know her. You can use her as a gauge to know how your new wife will be as she ages. It's not true in all cases, but many times, a girl does become more like her mother when she is married for a number of years.
Talk to the girl! It's pretty obvious, isn't it? Find out what she likes to do. Is she creative - does she paint, does she like gardening, etc? She will be happy at home. Is she more active, outgoing, sporty? She will probably be somewhat career oriented and like a busy social life.
Good Luck!
First of all, there's not way to ';make sure'; a girl is a virgin, and even so, who cares if she is? That shouldn't be a concrete reason to marry someone.
You should look for kindness, compassion, honesty, and affection in someone you chose to marry. Also, co-operation and a willingness to compromise will make any marriage run smoothly.
arrange marriage?.. gee. i think what matters is she's a good person all in all.
you may not know if she's a virgin or not for sure.
anyway..here's some of the things that i think you should look for..eventho some of them you might not know unless you be with her for a period of time..
loves you.
GOOD PERSONAL HYGEINE..(very important. that goes to guys as well.)
not crazy.
trustworthy.
values relationships and family.
makes wise decisions.
manages money well.
Fun.Friendly.Flirts(only with you)
Caring.
loves kids.
hope it goes well.
wow...looks like you've got a recipe for a happy marriage already.
Make sure she can cook and clean. And divorce her if she doesn't produce you with a son.
You know you can take her to a doctor and have her examined to make sure she is a virgin.
And make sure you lock all the doors and windows when you leave the house, we don't want her escaping now do we...
I would say think whether you are eligible person for this marriage. Don't think about virgin or other attributes. Just Love her to get them married, then all other will be Lovable, then Life will be Happy...
If you have these kind of questions in your mind during your marrinage you will not be happy at any time. Be Cooooool
All the Best for your Happy married Life.
sweet natured - honest. has ability to compromise. kindness. ability to communicate with her and her with you. easy going nature. doesnt find fault too easily. not quick to anger.
dont worry about the virgin thing too much (unless it really is very important to you)- without being too crude -there can be advantages to marrying someone who has a little experience in the past.
wow marriage is a major commitment and amazing step in life - good luck and hope you find your ideal life partner
I would think the following would be important:
* Communication skills - if you can't understand or talk to each other then the relationship is going to have problems
* Listening Skills - you need to be able to listen to and understand what your partner is wanting
* Future plans - need to be similar to yours or at least a little flexible
* Ideal Family - what plans does she have in regards to having a family and does this idea fit in with yours
These days it is better u know her personally. So do not marry in haste. Take some gap in between engagement %26amp; marriage %26amp; pass time with her.
U know better what u want in ur wife.
Some husbands like there wife to be housewife only, in that case she must be williing to take responsibility of house. Some husbands are miser %26amp; do not want to keep any maid servent while wives want to keep as they dso not know cooking washing, tailoring etc.. this creates rifts. Some wives do not want to live with in-laws while boys like.
I think ur hobbies must match.
If u like films, books, partying , religion or touring, or music, she must also like. So u must clear it.
Dude, this is odd. You can't make sure she's a virgin, and if that is your priority then I don't know what to tell you. You are the only one who knows what type of people you like and get along with. If it's arranged, does it even matter? You can't change her.
virginity ain't a taboo anymore... sadly, most arranged or fixed marriages are not that successful.. almost half of it end in divorce. what you need to know about her is her innermost attitude.. is she the wife material?? could she be a good wife?? can she stick to fidelity?? it's up to you to know. good luck, folk!
A doctor report on her virginity.
enthusiastic
obedient
faithful
smart
good conversationalist
pretty
nice breasts
good physical condition
nice teeth
no glasses
no family history of heriditory diseases
good financial state
good home management skills
marketable job skills
Easy to get along with family
Knows how to drive and operate basic machinery
Artistic
No excess bagage
Wants to marry you.
what difference would it make it the marriage is arranged, it won't matter what to look for, you are sol.................
If its an arranged marriage, do you have a choice? Are you going to be seeing her before the ceremony? Can you say no?
U should be asking this to married husbands rather then to girls....
Look for a beautiful girl (as per your own perception) that fit your life style and family values.
u should watch out her family and friends... if its an arranged marrage do trust ur parents... n have faith in almighty.... as womens charcter can be well predicted after the weddding as far as i know.... anycase all the very best for ur future!!!Go on men....
Friendship and the ablility to communicate is the most valuable thing for a marriage.
if she appreciates you if sha can cook if shes clean how she is around animals and kids
good luck
its better u know things personally not any thing like virginity or stuff cos it may hurt her feelings !!! there are ways to test all this ! but Its better to know things verbally !
Stick your finger in her, then you'll know
.....Idiot.
no idea but cool name raul. im raqhim
What you take advice from a divorced person about marriage problems?
I know i wouldnt cause if he/she couldnt make their own marriage work then their the wrong person to seek advice from..And yea i know what everybody is gonna say that they have experience and you can learn from their mistakes but i still wouldnt..What you take advice from a divorced person about marriage problems?
Yes. I know way more about marriage now than I did before or while I was married. The worst advice I got was from my MIL who has been married 47 years. The reason she has been married that long is b/c she put up with all kinds of crap, verbal and emotional abuse. Her advice was so wrong for me. I am much stronger than that and have chosen not to put up with what she did.
Just because someone has been married for a while does not mean that they have a good marriage or the kind of marriage you would want. So, I say take advice from both married and divorce people. The more experiences the better!What you take advice from a divorced person about marriage problems?
We can learn from their mistakes
and AVOID committing them.
I do somewhat agree with you...
The best advisors should be
those who have overcome adversities
and surviving the odds of their
marriages successfully.
If you follow some of those with failed ones (due to own follies),
chances are that they will advise you to quit and go easily,
when much could have been done to rectify the problems.:)
lol, well, count me in as one of the ones who has/does take advice from a divorced person.
My 80 year old granmother's first and only husband was a HORRIBLE cheater-almost like his life depended on it. Granted, I would put money on a bet that she had her part to play, but none the less, he was ultimately in the wrong, and she couldn't ';share her man'; any longer, so she finally divorced him...
Some of the best advice she has given to me is: never go to bed angry.... keep communication OPEN.... Don't nag...
Simple yet very true advice, that if I would apply more often, I know I'd see very positive results. Honestly, it's foolish to outright discount someone who has genuinely learned from a mistake they've made. In a way, that is part of why we remember things-to share what WE'VE experienced and subsequently learned, with others who haven't yet been there.
In a way, your question could be reasked as-would you take advice from someone who's still married, but had HUGE marital struggles for years?
Ultimately, divorce is a HORRIBLE choice, but you can always learn from someone who has first learned for themself... keep your mind open, you might be suprised.
Be carefull now. There are a lot of people who are divorced that DO have good advice. I for one have a lot of good advice. I am divorced and it was for a good reason. And believe me, I'm not divorced from my lack of trying. There are a lot of people who are divorced for many different reasons. For me, I got married too young and picked the wrong woman. It was my fault for picking her but it was her fault for hiding her true self from me. Don't be so quick to judge.
Why do you say, 'If they couldn't make their marriage work.....'? Have you ever been in a relationship? Do you understand what it takes to make a marriage work? And how sometimes no matter what you do it just can't? It doesn't make a person a failure at marriage and therefore make them give untrustworthy advice. It makes their view of how things can happen valuable.
Some of them know BEST. At least they can tell you what NOT to do. I would never take advice from an angry divorced person but I would take advice from someone that has had time to reflect on the experience. I always use to say that I would never take dieting advice from a fat person (long story) but oddly enough they usually know more than we do, they just can't follow their own advice.
You should be open minded to any person who has more life experience than you do. You don't necessarily have to take their advice, just listen. Now, maybe if they have been married and divorced 8 or more times....
well heres the thing a divorced person is experienced. they know the do's and donts ,so why not listen. there might be somethings yo ucan use and that may be helpful. I can then decide myself whether to use the info or not! good luck!
Instead of 'what' you mean 'would'. The answer is it all depends on the circumstances of why the person got a divorce. There are some really good people out there that are divorced that were not treated well. So it all depend!!!
Maybe it depended on wht the situation was... I have a few times before...and I even took advice from someone who was never married.. I really just needed someone to listen that was not in the situation
Experience = wisdom. Yes I would take advice from a divorced person. I've been there. I know what happens.
i wouldn't mind listening to their experience and advice.
to follow it, its your choice.
Once again... It takes 2 people to make a marriage work so it would depend on which one of the two you consult.chemical face peel
Yes. I know way more about marriage now than I did before or while I was married. The worst advice I got was from my MIL who has been married 47 years. The reason she has been married that long is b/c she put up with all kinds of crap, verbal and emotional abuse. Her advice was so wrong for me. I am much stronger than that and have chosen not to put up with what she did.
Just because someone has been married for a while does not mean that they have a good marriage or the kind of marriage you would want. So, I say take advice from both married and divorce people. The more experiences the better!What you take advice from a divorced person about marriage problems?
We can learn from their mistakes
and AVOID committing them.
I do somewhat agree with you...
The best advisors should be
those who have overcome adversities
and surviving the odds of their
marriages successfully.
If you follow some of those with failed ones (due to own follies),
chances are that they will advise you to quit and go easily,
when much could have been done to rectify the problems.:)
lol, well, count me in as one of the ones who has/does take advice from a divorced person.
My 80 year old granmother's first and only husband was a HORRIBLE cheater-almost like his life depended on it. Granted, I would put money on a bet that she had her part to play, but none the less, he was ultimately in the wrong, and she couldn't ';share her man'; any longer, so she finally divorced him...
Some of the best advice she has given to me is: never go to bed angry.... keep communication OPEN.... Don't nag...
Simple yet very true advice, that if I would apply more often, I know I'd see very positive results. Honestly, it's foolish to outright discount someone who has genuinely learned from a mistake they've made. In a way, that is part of why we remember things-to share what WE'VE experienced and subsequently learned, with others who haven't yet been there.
In a way, your question could be reasked as-would you take advice from someone who's still married, but had HUGE marital struggles for years?
Ultimately, divorce is a HORRIBLE choice, but you can always learn from someone who has first learned for themself... keep your mind open, you might be suprised.
Be carefull now. There are a lot of people who are divorced that DO have good advice. I for one have a lot of good advice. I am divorced and it was for a good reason. And believe me, I'm not divorced from my lack of trying. There are a lot of people who are divorced for many different reasons. For me, I got married too young and picked the wrong woman. It was my fault for picking her but it was her fault for hiding her true self from me. Don't be so quick to judge.
Why do you say, 'If they couldn't make their marriage work.....'? Have you ever been in a relationship? Do you understand what it takes to make a marriage work? And how sometimes no matter what you do it just can't? It doesn't make a person a failure at marriage and therefore make them give untrustworthy advice. It makes their view of how things can happen valuable.
Some of them know BEST. At least they can tell you what NOT to do. I would never take advice from an angry divorced person but I would take advice from someone that has had time to reflect on the experience. I always use to say that I would never take dieting advice from a fat person (long story) but oddly enough they usually know more than we do, they just can't follow their own advice.
You should be open minded to any person who has more life experience than you do. You don't necessarily have to take their advice, just listen. Now, maybe if they have been married and divorced 8 or more times....
well heres the thing a divorced person is experienced. they know the do's and donts ,so why not listen. there might be somethings yo ucan use and that may be helpful. I can then decide myself whether to use the info or not! good luck!
Instead of 'what' you mean 'would'. The answer is it all depends on the circumstances of why the person got a divorce. There are some really good people out there that are divorced that were not treated well. So it all depend!!!
Maybe it depended on wht the situation was... I have a few times before...and I even took advice from someone who was never married.. I really just needed someone to listen that was not in the situation
Experience = wisdom. Yes I would take advice from a divorced person. I've been there. I know what happens.
i wouldn't mind listening to their experience and advice.
to follow it, its your choice.
Once again... It takes 2 people to make a marriage work so it would depend on which one of the two you consult.
How quickly do I have inform by bank, school, job etc. about my name change after marriage?
I also want to know if I'll have to get a new social security card. Would I risk any legal problems if I wait a while before informing them?How quickly do I have inform by bank, school, job etc. about my name change after marriage?
You should notify your bank, school, job, etc within 90 days of your name change. After that amount of time, most places will question why you waited so long.
Yes, you will have to apply for another SSN card. You'll need your marriage certificate as proof of the new name. It's a free change; your old number is just reissued under your married name, for example...Miss Mary Jones is now Mrs. Mary Green. The application can be printed out from the Social Security webpage sourced below. This will also ensure that your taxes are paid to the proper name.How quickly do I have inform by bank, school, job etc. about my name change after marriage?
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To Shelty K on searching for former classmates....Use classmates.com and reunion.com to find them. Search with their maiden name, that is the name they had in high school in the yearbooks.
classmates.com asks for maiden name in high school when registering. I'm currently registered there %26amp; have been able to locate several married friends by using the name from the yearbooks.
Why change your name at all?
Many women continue to be known by their own name without losing their identity to a marriage. Banks don't care about your name if the account is yours. Social Security cards can be maintained as can drivers license and all other documents.
Some women do change their names but the cost to the taxpayer over all for this reissue is quite high.
The other factor in all this is that women become invisible, that is if someone seeks you say from your c]schooldays there is no trail for them to follow. I have tried many times to find friends who I knew at school and in the service or at med school for reunions and other events that i am sure they would have loved to come to. All dead ends, because of the silly act of of name changing in marriage. They have become the invisible society!
keep your own last name its easier
You should notify your bank, school, job, etc within 90 days of your name change. After that amount of time, most places will question why you waited so long.
Yes, you will have to apply for another SSN card. You'll need your marriage certificate as proof of the new name. It's a free change; your old number is just reissued under your married name, for example...Miss Mary Jones is now Mrs. Mary Green. The application can be printed out from the Social Security webpage sourced below. This will also ensure that your taxes are paid to the proper name.How quickly do I have inform by bank, school, job etc. about my name change after marriage?
You're welcome %26amp; thanks for the best answer choice.
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To Shelty K on searching for former classmates....Use classmates.com and reunion.com to find them. Search with their maiden name, that is the name they had in high school in the yearbooks.
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Why change your name at all?
Many women continue to be known by their own name without losing their identity to a marriage. Banks don't care about your name if the account is yours. Social Security cards can be maintained as can drivers license and all other documents.
Some women do change their names but the cost to the taxpayer over all for this reissue is quite high.
The other factor in all this is that women become invisible, that is if someone seeks you say from your c]schooldays there is no trail for them to follow. I have tried many times to find friends who I knew at school and in the service or at med school for reunions and other events that i am sure they would have loved to come to. All dead ends, because of the silly act of of name changing in marriage. They have become the invisible society!
keep your own last name its easier
Is your marriage healthy? Do you ever doubt that you'll stay together until one of you dies?
My marriage is not healthy. My wife is almost 500 lbs now. I really don't care for her much. It's mostly the smell I think at this point. The drooling when she eats is bad as well. I had hopes that we'd actually make it to the end of the decade. But since her trust fund is going to be fully available in 09', I'll probably file for divorce then.Is your marriage healthy? Do you ever doubt that you'll stay together until one of you dies?
Flame baiting is not nice!
Somebody might take this seriously.Is your marriage healthy? Do you ever doubt that you'll stay together until one of you dies?
My marriage sucks too. Yes, wife is pretty and sexy. But what I can't stand is her character. She's a sadistic *****. Selfish, arrogant,loud ******, with a nasty temper and treats my 5 yr old daughter like ****. To be honest, I married her just because I don't want to be alone. But, right know, I'm just in it because I love my daughter too much,don;t want her to grow up without a mother. Sigh, if only we have no daughter, I would have annulled her in no time. (no divorce in our country). I just hate her. I'm that close of beating the **** out of her., but hey, I'm just not a wife beater..but sometimes she really gets on my nerves, specially when she would let my daughter sleep like almost 1 a.m. just because she's not that good and fast enough in her math.
That's it!
No matter how many times I ask you to treat me right you go and do something like this.
I've had enough. You are on notice. You and Raoul are going to change places. Frank you get to clean the pool now.
I've gotten so much more attention from Raoul this summer than you.
He helped me get out of the hot tub when I got stuck in the drain. Yes thats where that mark came from.
I find he has been so much more attentive and loving. He enjoys the big tip as well it feeds his family for a month.
You on the other hand are going to be out of money in two days.
My daddy does not want to cut you off yet but he will soon. He said that you are really a nice guy and I should give you some slack.
I'm startting to get suspicious. My daddy's life got so much better than it was before he met mom. I'm beginning to think you and daddy are becoming such good friends because you both married well.
It is about to end., FRANK, are you listening to me FRANK, FRANK,
where are you going? Bring Twinkies home.
Frankie I told you...........I have plenty of money to help you out. Oh I am all a twitter to hear you are divorcing her, that moo moo! I recently played in role where I was the Mommy. I got thousands for that little ';B'; movie! You don't need to play with moo moo anymore! I don't drool either. And I will be making it to the end of the decade! Call me hun!
What you need to do is get an 8,000 lb forklift, put a pallet on the forks, add an easy chair and a big bucket of KFC and take moo moo out on the town! If she is riding on the palllet, you won't smell her over the diesel fumes unless you are downwind.
yeah, at this point it would be best to just wait it out. she might have a heart attack before then though. Keep feeding her the burger,fries, and cake.
Hilarious!!!
But Honey all you had to do was ask.
She'll be dead soon enough, just wait it out.
Get some lysol for the stench.
Well, at this point, she won't live long so I would not worry about it.
A mismatch thing.
Get over it fast.
I think I just lost my apetite. and nice nick name.
ITS LOVE NOTE FRIDAY!!! Get on it baby!
WOW! If the woman is 500 lbs. then you won't have to file for a divorce. She is now at deaths door.
Flame baiting is not nice!
Somebody might take this seriously.Is your marriage healthy? Do you ever doubt that you'll stay together until one of you dies?
My marriage sucks too. Yes, wife is pretty and sexy. But what I can't stand is her character. She's a sadistic *****. Selfish, arrogant,loud ******, with a nasty temper and treats my 5 yr old daughter like ****. To be honest, I married her just because I don't want to be alone. But, right know, I'm just in it because I love my daughter too much,don;t want her to grow up without a mother. Sigh, if only we have no daughter, I would have annulled her in no time. (no divorce in our country). I just hate her. I'm that close of beating the **** out of her., but hey, I'm just not a wife beater..but sometimes she really gets on my nerves, specially when she would let my daughter sleep like almost 1 a.m. just because she's not that good and fast enough in her math.
That's it!
No matter how many times I ask you to treat me right you go and do something like this.
I've had enough. You are on notice. You and Raoul are going to change places. Frank you get to clean the pool now.
I've gotten so much more attention from Raoul this summer than you.
He helped me get out of the hot tub when I got stuck in the drain. Yes thats where that mark came from.
I find he has been so much more attentive and loving. He enjoys the big tip as well it feeds his family for a month.
You on the other hand are going to be out of money in two days.
My daddy does not want to cut you off yet but he will soon. He said that you are really a nice guy and I should give you some slack.
I'm startting to get suspicious. My daddy's life got so much better than it was before he met mom. I'm beginning to think you and daddy are becoming such good friends because you both married well.
It is about to end., FRANK, are you listening to me FRANK, FRANK,
where are you going? Bring Twinkies home.
Frankie I told you...........I have plenty of money to help you out. Oh I am all a twitter to hear you are divorcing her, that moo moo! I recently played in role where I was the Mommy. I got thousands for that little ';B'; movie! You don't need to play with moo moo anymore! I don't drool either. And I will be making it to the end of the decade! Call me hun!
What you need to do is get an 8,000 lb forklift, put a pallet on the forks, add an easy chair and a big bucket of KFC and take moo moo out on the town! If she is riding on the palllet, you won't smell her over the diesel fumes unless you are downwind.
yeah, at this point it would be best to just wait it out. she might have a heart attack before then though. Keep feeding her the burger,fries, and cake.
Hilarious!!!
But Honey all you had to do was ask.
She'll be dead soon enough, just wait it out.
Get some lysol for the stench.
Well, at this point, she won't live long so I would not worry about it.
A mismatch thing.
Get over it fast.
I think I just lost my apetite. and nice nick name.
ITS LOVE NOTE FRIDAY!!! Get on it baby!
WOW! If the woman is 500 lbs. then you won't have to file for a divorce. She is now at deaths door.
Why does friar laurence want to help avoid marriage with paris in romeo and juliet?
help me!Why does friar laurence want to help avoid marriage with paris in romeo and juliet?
There are a lot of answers to this question, but the easiest one is that he sees an opportunity to help two young people who really love each other, and whose marriage could end the feud between the Capulets and the Montagues.Why does friar laurence want to help avoid marriage with paris in romeo and juliet?
Because at that point Juliet was already married to Romeo. So Juliet CANNOT marry Paris.
The problem is, he's in a tight spot, since he married the two without their parents' consent. And they are powerful families. He would probably, at the least, be facing a transfer to a less desirable place than Verona, if he had stepped forward and admitted what he'd done.
So he's trying to arrange a way out for everyone, until things blow over a little and the truth can be safely told.
Because he married Romeo and Juliet already
There are a lot of answers to this question, but the easiest one is that he sees an opportunity to help two young people who really love each other, and whose marriage could end the feud between the Capulets and the Montagues.Why does friar laurence want to help avoid marriage with paris in romeo and juliet?
Because at that point Juliet was already married to Romeo. So Juliet CANNOT marry Paris.
The problem is, he's in a tight spot, since he married the two without their parents' consent. And they are powerful families. He would probably, at the least, be facing a transfer to a less desirable place than Verona, if he had stepped forward and admitted what he'd done.
So he's trying to arrange a way out for everyone, until things blow over a little and the truth can be safely told.
Because he married Romeo and Juliet already
Is yahoo answers an appropriate medium for proposing marriage?
probably not, unless your beloved is a top contributorIs yahoo answers an appropriate medium for proposing marriage?
NO WAY HONEY .......... Go to her personally and than propose her..
You do not want to see her reaction and first expression after you will propose her ??????
I think that will be the moment you will treasure of rest of your life ...
BEST OF LUCK MY FRIENDIs yahoo answers an appropriate medium for proposing marriage?
not at all dude..............
proposing is not jus asking a ques and cut of 5 points............its very special............u have to make it special.........
yes why not...its innovative...
Only if you are cut off with real world.
Absolutely...is there something you need to ask me?
No don't think so.
uhhhhh no
errrrrr one world....is that an offer? lollllll
I didn't think you cared lol....
oh oh oh!!! What have I missed?! Are you asking Missy up there to marry you?! Awwww! Can I be bridesmaid?!
nope i don't think so...coz u actually don't know much abt the person u r deciding 2 spend ur whole life wid...
NO WAY HONEY .......... Go to her personally and than propose her..
You do not want to see her reaction and first expression after you will propose her ??????
I think that will be the moment you will treasure of rest of your life ...
BEST OF LUCK MY FRIENDIs yahoo answers an appropriate medium for proposing marriage?
not at all dude..............
proposing is not jus asking a ques and cut of 5 points............its very special............u have to make it special.........
yes why not...its innovative...
Only if you are cut off with real world.
Absolutely...is there something you need to ask me?
No don't think so.
uhhhhh no
errrrrr one world....is that an offer? lollllll
I didn't think you cared lol....
oh oh oh!!! What have I missed?! Are you asking Missy up there to marry you?! Awwww! Can I be bridesmaid?!
nope i don't think so...coz u actually don't know much abt the person u r deciding 2 spend ur whole life wid...
My husband and I started our business and now we are having problems with our marriage?
We started our business about a year ago. And now the issue is that he overworks himself and we dont have time for ourselves. I think the problem is that he doesnt know how to divide his time, and he says its because we work together so we spend TOO much time together. Is there a book or a video that can help us with this specific thing?My husband and I started our business and now we are having problems with our marriage?
Book or video?
Good old 'talking about it' fail?My husband and I started our business and now we are having problems with our marriage?
Didn't Bill Clinton have this problem with Monica?
I can think of a few books, but they aren't on this specific issue. Most of them are just for working through relationship problems with constructive problem solving strategies that seem really boring, to me. I think that the issue may be as much that you do not spend enough time outside of work as it is that you two spend too much time together in the work environment. You can do two things: 1) Run trials for the solutions you two have: A) Space for two weeks. B) Additional activities for two weeks. See which of these works best. 2) Spice up the work place. Seriously, I think Clinton and Lewinsky were onto something.
My husband and I have ';been there, done that.';
The lure of being your own boss is strong, but the truth is that you become a slave to the business. It's such a risky venture for a husband and wife to work together; few can do it successfully.
Divide the responsibilities. Draw distinct lines between the business-related issues that you and he are each expected to deal with. Have separate offices. Give each other a 1/2 day away from the business when you can.
Our business got bigger than we were. Customers always wanted something for nothing, wrote bad checks, etc. Employment laws always favored the employee, insurance was costly and finding skilled employees with a sound work ethic was near impossible.
Financially, the business was a nightmare and took its toll on us both. We were making sacrifices we'd never intended to make. Eventually we realized that the business was controlling our lives far too much and eating up all of our time, so we shut it down. What a relief!
It was only by the grace of God that we survived the venture and are back on our feet again. We learned some valuable lessons and our relationship did benefit in the long run, but we never want to go through that again!
Well I think he's wrong because time together working is completely different than 'getting away from it all'. In fact, work subjects shouldn't be brought up if at all possible.
Owning a business is stressful, but a 'Wise' man knows when to walk away and refresh himself.
I own a small business too, and I'm determined to not let it run my life and get burnt out. I wish I had a book to help you, but I've seen classes offered through 'non-profit small business agencies'--relating to different topics in the business world. I think your local job service would know if you have one in your area.
My husband wants to start a business, and this is one reason why I am dragging my feet about it... What will it do to US ?? Married 33 years, but still...... Might I suggest you put the pros and cons down on paper..... I mean, what you would LIKE out of the deal.... What you see HIM wanting out of the deal..... etc...... like taking ONE night a week or even a month for DATE night..... Talk to the man !!! sit him down, and just speak your mind on it !!!!!! Not sure about tapes, videos, books, etc.... but I just imagine there is.... books for everything else under the son !!!! go in peace..... God bless
You need to get a separate job and be away from him more, there is too much together time and that can kill any marriage. Too much of a good thing, etc.
If you guys have extra cash why dont you see a conselor? some one with more exprience. Or even go to a church retreat?
he is right!!! space is a bueatiful thing!!!! you have to have a chance to miss each other!!!
Book or video?
Good old 'talking about it' fail?My husband and I started our business and now we are having problems with our marriage?
Didn't Bill Clinton have this problem with Monica?
I can think of a few books, but they aren't on this specific issue. Most of them are just for working through relationship problems with constructive problem solving strategies that seem really boring, to me. I think that the issue may be as much that you do not spend enough time outside of work as it is that you two spend too much time together in the work environment. You can do two things: 1) Run trials for the solutions you two have: A) Space for two weeks. B) Additional activities for two weeks. See which of these works best. 2) Spice up the work place. Seriously, I think Clinton and Lewinsky were onto something.
My husband and I have ';been there, done that.';
The lure of being your own boss is strong, but the truth is that you become a slave to the business. It's such a risky venture for a husband and wife to work together; few can do it successfully.
Divide the responsibilities. Draw distinct lines between the business-related issues that you and he are each expected to deal with. Have separate offices. Give each other a 1/2 day away from the business when you can.
Our business got bigger than we were. Customers always wanted something for nothing, wrote bad checks, etc. Employment laws always favored the employee, insurance was costly and finding skilled employees with a sound work ethic was near impossible.
Financially, the business was a nightmare and took its toll on us both. We were making sacrifices we'd never intended to make. Eventually we realized that the business was controlling our lives far too much and eating up all of our time, so we shut it down. What a relief!
It was only by the grace of God that we survived the venture and are back on our feet again. We learned some valuable lessons and our relationship did benefit in the long run, but we never want to go through that again!
Well I think he's wrong because time together working is completely different than 'getting away from it all'. In fact, work subjects shouldn't be brought up if at all possible.
Owning a business is stressful, but a 'Wise' man knows when to walk away and refresh himself.
I own a small business too, and I'm determined to not let it run my life and get burnt out. I wish I had a book to help you, but I've seen classes offered through 'non-profit small business agencies'--relating to different topics in the business world. I think your local job service would know if you have one in your area.
My husband wants to start a business, and this is one reason why I am dragging my feet about it... What will it do to US ?? Married 33 years, but still...... Might I suggest you put the pros and cons down on paper..... I mean, what you would LIKE out of the deal.... What you see HIM wanting out of the deal..... etc...... like taking ONE night a week or even a month for DATE night..... Talk to the man !!! sit him down, and just speak your mind on it !!!!!! Not sure about tapes, videos, books, etc.... but I just imagine there is.... books for everything else under the son !!!! go in peace..... God bless
You need to get a separate job and be away from him more, there is too much together time and that can kill any marriage. Too much of a good thing, etc.
If you guys have extra cash why dont you see a conselor? some one with more exprience. Or even go to a church retreat?
he is right!!! space is a bueatiful thing!!!! you have to have a chance to miss each other!!!
How did Mel Gibson manage to ANNUL his marriage?
...ANNUL??? Divorce, maybe... BUT ANNUL??
After 28 years of marriage, and 7 kids?? WTF?? What were his grounds?How did Mel Gibson manage to ANNUL his marriage?
%26lt;wyomugs starts humming...%26gt;
';If you've got the money, honey, I've got the annulment...';
Everyone is entitled to my opinion.How did Mel Gibson manage to ANNUL his marriage?
I read that his father is the preacher of Mel Gibson's church. He annulled the marriage. But it's not a real annulment.chemical face peel
After 28 years of marriage, and 7 kids?? WTF?? What were his grounds?How did Mel Gibson manage to ANNUL his marriage?
%26lt;wyomugs starts humming...%26gt;
';If you've got the money, honey, I've got the annulment...';
Everyone is entitled to my opinion.How did Mel Gibson manage to ANNUL his marriage?
I read that his father is the preacher of Mel Gibson's church. He annulled the marriage. But it's not a real annulment.
If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
I ask gay marriage questions on here occasionally and sometimes I'll be told that two guys or two girls can't make a baby and thus this somehow disproves my whole theory that we can change laws to make them more equal.
My question now is if procreation is the line we are drawing, shouldn't we encourage or legalize polygamy in order to improve repopulation?If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
marriage = two consenting adults
so simple, even you can understand.If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
1. We already have too big a population. We don't want more.
2. Polygamy actually causes fewer children to be born than monogamy. Five men with five wives have more intimate encounters at the right time of the month than one man with those 5 wives. Plus those other unmarried four guys are out there causing trouble.
3. The primary purpose of monogamy is to support a healthy economy and a strong free democratic country. It's working better than any polygamous place. A LOT better.
You make a valid point.
Elder couples that have no need to procreate have no right to marry if that is the purpose of marriage.
I'm not sure why polygamy is even illegal since there is nothing constitutional to make it a crime
My question now is if procreation is the line we are drawing, shouldn't we encourage or legalize polygamy in order to improve repopulation?If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
marriage = two consenting adults
so simple, even you can understand.If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
1. We already have too big a population. We don't want more.
2. Polygamy actually causes fewer children to be born than monogamy. Five men with five wives have more intimate encounters at the right time of the month than one man with those 5 wives. Plus those other unmarried four guys are out there causing trouble.
3. The primary purpose of monogamy is to support a healthy economy and a strong free democratic country. It's working better than any polygamous place. A LOT better.
You make a valid point.
Elder couples that have no need to procreate have no right to marry if that is the purpose of marriage.
I'm not sure why polygamy is even illegal since there is nothing constitutional to make it a crime
If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
I ask gay marriage questions on here occasionally and sometimes I'll be told that two guys or two girls can't make a baby and thus this somehow disproves my whole theory that we can change laws to make them more equal.
My question now is if procreation is the line we are drawing, shouldn't we encourage or legalize polygamy in order to improve repopulation?If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
marriage = two consenting adults
so simple, even you can understand.If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
1. We already have too big a population. We don't want more.
2. Polygamy actually causes fewer children to be born than monogamy. Five men with five wives have more intimate encounters at the right time of the month than one man with those 5 wives. Plus those other unmarried four guys are out there causing trouble.
3. The primary purpose of monogamy is to support a healthy economy and a strong free democratic country. It's working better than any polygamous place. A LOT better.
You make a valid point.
Elder couples that have no need to procreate have no right to marry if that is the purpose of marriage.
I'm not sure why polygamy is even illegal since there is nothing constitutional to make it a crime
My question now is if procreation is the line we are drawing, shouldn't we encourage or legalize polygamy in order to improve repopulation?If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
marriage = two consenting adults
so simple, even you can understand.If marriage's primary purpose is procreation, then why not polygamy?
1. We already have too big a population. We don't want more.
2. Polygamy actually causes fewer children to be born than monogamy. Five men with five wives have more intimate encounters at the right time of the month than one man with those 5 wives. Plus those other unmarried four guys are out there causing trouble.
3. The primary purpose of monogamy is to support a healthy economy and a strong free democratic country. It's working better than any polygamous place. A LOT better.
You make a valid point.
Elder couples that have no need to procreate have no right to marry if that is the purpose of marriage.
I'm not sure why polygamy is even illegal since there is nothing constitutional to make it a crime
What kind of questions are good to ask a married,divorced,and single people about marriage and family?
I have to interview people which consists of marriage and family in depth question. I'd really appreciate any feedback, or ideas. This has to do with material (sociological concepts)What kind of questions are good to ask a married,divorced,and single people about marriage and family?
How long they've been married?
How they met?
How long between meeting and getting married?
How long after marriage did they have their first child?
Were children planned or not?
How their respective families get along with their spouse?
Age, religious, racial, background differences?
Individual or joint finances, and/or property?
Sharing of responsibilities?What kind of questions are good to ask a married,divorced,and single people about marriage and family?
How they deal with difficult situations?
What problems they have overcome in their marriage?
What are some of the ways in which each of them had changed since they've been together? What's the biggest/hardest one for them?
How did they deal with things they didn't like in the other person?
Had there been any infidelity, and how was it overcome?
Was there ever a time that they really wanted to give up? Why didn't they?
How long they've been married?
How they met?
How long between meeting and getting married?
How long after marriage did they have their first child?
Were children planned or not?
How their respective families get along with their spouse?
Age, religious, racial, background differences?
Individual or joint finances, and/or property?
Sharing of responsibilities?What kind of questions are good to ask a married,divorced,and single people about marriage and family?
How they deal with difficult situations?
What problems they have overcome in their marriage?
What are some of the ways in which each of them had changed since they've been together? What's the biggest/hardest one for them?
How did they deal with things they didn't like in the other person?
Had there been any infidelity, and how was it overcome?
Was there ever a time that they really wanted to give up? Why didn't they?
What does it mean to stay Pure till marriage?
I know no sex...but when and what actions with your loved one that cause you to start loosing blessing for your future?What does it mean to stay Pure till marriage?
It is ridiculous, nowhere in Bible does it say no sex before marriage. Besides the Bible is filled with a bunch on nonsense anyway. Sex is a biological function that Religions have taught is a bad thing. Pure, is a state of mind not abstinence. If you love someone and you feel like sex go for it, if you don't love them and feel like sex-go for it. Sex is natural sex is fun! Sex can be liberating.What does it mean to stay Pure till marriage?
I'm assuming it's binge drinking, doing anything that is considered sex, breaking the law. I mean, anything that is sinful. I think it is a little extreme, but I'm not religious. If you decide to have sex then make sure you are safe and in a healthy relationship (no, I'm not talking about a boy who pays for your movie ticket and holds you hand for a few weeks). If you drink then be safe about it. It's not fun when you get sick and embarrass yourself. Just be cautious. I say doing everything in moderation is always key.
okay remaining pure until marraige is a whole lot different that abstaining from sex until marriage. staying pure is living a pure lifestyle. set boundaries for yourself when your on a date. for instance if you think that making out is good enough or far enough than set that boundary and don't go past it. some people say no clothes off. it depends living a pure lifestyle also means keeping your body protected and not flaunting it to the world, or going out with every guy that asks you. when you get married virginity is the best gift to give your husband but so is your body. imagine if on your wedding day your husband turned to you and said ';i've saved this kiss for you'; meaning he hadn't kissed another girl until you on your wedding day. but imagine if on your wedding nite he said'; yeah you're the 15th girl i've had sex with but don't worry i love you'; the first one would be a lot better.
staying ';pure'; til marriage means you don't have intercourse until you are married. but don't worry, anal and oral are okay in god's eyes, because after all sex should only be used to procreate and those methods are 100 percent baby free.
If you have no physical relationship with other till the marriage then you shall be called Pure.
As and when you shall think to get involved with him you shall start loosing...
To not have sex until marriage
to remain a virgin until you have committed yourself to your spouse
i have a promis ring and intend to stay pure! lol
um i really dint no
Its means just sex sweetie, and if you are that's the best gift you can ever give your husband
Avoid doing the Squatting Sister and the Texas Chili Bowl and you'll be fine. Oh, and stay away from the Brown Star Fish.
You are just supposed to abstain from sex and porn and things of that nature.
Pure opposite of whore.
No sex
but its totally up to what you believe in!!!!!!
Just sex
nothing :s
stay to your values. but mostly the whole no sex thing
I would say what you feel in your heart should be your answer.....
dont eat any trans-fatty foods
It is ridiculous, nowhere in Bible does it say no sex before marriage. Besides the Bible is filled with a bunch on nonsense anyway. Sex is a biological function that Religions have taught is a bad thing. Pure, is a state of mind not abstinence. If you love someone and you feel like sex go for it, if you don't love them and feel like sex-go for it. Sex is natural sex is fun! Sex can be liberating.What does it mean to stay Pure till marriage?
I'm assuming it's binge drinking, doing anything that is considered sex, breaking the law. I mean, anything that is sinful. I think it is a little extreme, but I'm not religious. If you decide to have sex then make sure you are safe and in a healthy relationship (no, I'm not talking about a boy who pays for your movie ticket and holds you hand for a few weeks). If you drink then be safe about it. It's not fun when you get sick and embarrass yourself. Just be cautious. I say doing everything in moderation is always key.
okay remaining pure until marraige is a whole lot different that abstaining from sex until marriage. staying pure is living a pure lifestyle. set boundaries for yourself when your on a date. for instance if you think that making out is good enough or far enough than set that boundary and don't go past it. some people say no clothes off. it depends living a pure lifestyle also means keeping your body protected and not flaunting it to the world, or going out with every guy that asks you. when you get married virginity is the best gift to give your husband but so is your body. imagine if on your wedding day your husband turned to you and said ';i've saved this kiss for you'; meaning he hadn't kissed another girl until you on your wedding day. but imagine if on your wedding nite he said'; yeah you're the 15th girl i've had sex with but don't worry i love you'; the first one would be a lot better.
staying ';pure'; til marriage means you don't have intercourse until you are married. but don't worry, anal and oral are okay in god's eyes, because after all sex should only be used to procreate and those methods are 100 percent baby free.
If you have no physical relationship with other till the marriage then you shall be called Pure.
As and when you shall think to get involved with him you shall start loosing...
To not have sex until marriage
to remain a virgin until you have committed yourself to your spouse
i have a promis ring and intend to stay pure! lol
um i really dint no
Its means just sex sweetie, and if you are that's the best gift you can ever give your husband
Avoid doing the Squatting Sister and the Texas Chili Bowl and you'll be fine. Oh, and stay away from the Brown Star Fish.
You are just supposed to abstain from sex and porn and things of that nature.
Pure opposite of whore.
No sex
but its totally up to what you believe in!!!!!!
Just sex
nothing :s
stay to your values. but mostly the whole no sex thing
I would say what you feel in your heart should be your answer.....
dont eat any trans-fatty foods
Is marriage (and dating) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) as rare as it is with black women?
are relationships (marriages mostly) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) just as rare as it is with a white guy and black girl?
do white guys feel just as threatened by mixed girls as they do black girls? (i heard, that white guys dont approach black girls cause they feel threatened).Is marriage (and dating) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) as rare as it is with black women?
yes it is rare.......
i think guys are threatened by mixed girls...but not nearly as much as they are by us black girls......Is marriage (and dating) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) as rare as it is with black women?
ok let me be honost. that's bullshit i got a friend that's a girl and she is going out with a white boy and they r perfectly normal together.
boys dont feel threatend unless they are racist
if u have feelings for him just do what u feel
do white guys feel just as threatened by mixed girls as they do black girls? (i heard, that white guys dont approach black girls cause they feel threatened).Is marriage (and dating) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) as rare as it is with black women?
yes it is rare.......
i think guys are threatened by mixed girls...but not nearly as much as they are by us black girls......Is marriage (and dating) between a white guy and mixed girl (black/white) as rare as it is with black women?
ok let me be honost. that's bullshit i got a friend that's a girl and she is going out with a white boy and they r perfectly normal together.
boys dont feel threatend unless they are racist
if u have feelings for him just do what u feel
What does an Arizona based conservative group have to do with California's recent gay marriage ban ruling?
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more than you might think.What does an Arizona based conservative group have to do with California's recent gay marriage ban ruling?
I think 9th and 14th amendments apply to same sex union, also loving v virginia precedentchemical face peel
more than you might think.What does an Arizona based conservative group have to do with California's recent gay marriage ban ruling?
I think 9th and 14th amendments apply to same sex union, also loving v virginia precedent
How would I do an out-of-state marriage?
How specifically does an out-of-state marriage work?
If I'm 18 at the time of marriage, and my partner sixteen, would an out-of-state marriage be possible?
Would my state [Oregon] accept such a marriage?How would I do an out-of-state marriage?
Some states allow a 16yo to marry with parental consent. Most of these states do have residency requirements.
Those marriage are not recognized in the other states that do not allow minors to marry. It might be best to wait.
If I'm 18 at the time of marriage, and my partner sixteen, would an out-of-state marriage be possible?
Would my state [Oregon] accept such a marriage?How would I do an out-of-state marriage?
Some states allow a 16yo to marry with parental consent. Most of these states do have residency requirements.
Those marriage are not recognized in the other states that do not allow minors to marry. It might be best to wait.
I am looking for some answers on gay marriage, please?
I would like to know the laws pertaining to gay marriage in the states it is permitted in. Are insurance companies, hospitals, etc, required to recognize the marriage? Do other states have to recognize the marriage?
Thanks.I am looking for some answers on gay marriage, please?
Equal protection will one day soon make gay marriage legal in all 50 states. The fundies can fight it if they want, but they will fail.I am looking for some answers on gay marriage, please?
The benefits given by the states the allow same sex marriage vary. The only other states that will recognize it are other same sex marriage states, and they dont have to. Your marriage wont be recognized internationally either.
Hospitals will let you in the room if the patient says you are family. When it comes to medical decisions, you have to have a signed poa, the marriage isnt enough. Hospitals have to recognize the poa, but a blood family memeber CAN challenge it in court and the courts favor the legal next of kin, and by federal law a same sex spouse is NEVER the legal next of kin.
I dont live in a same sex marriage state, so I dont have the specifics on the others, and it varies as differnet states offer different marrital benefits.
Yes it is a legal marriage so those business that have a lic to do business in MA are required to honor the marriage.
Right now other states are in violation by not recognizing the marriage as it is required by the US Constitution full faith+credit clause which is why other states must accept 2 16 yr old kids that got married in bum funk nowhere as a married couple even though they are kids and the idea that they are married is retarded
Just read an article in yesterday's paper about it...
New York is the only state that does not allow gay marriage that will still recognize it as a marriage. Civil Union states have the conditions for HIPAA, benefits %26amp; beneficiaries, and legal conditions of relationships met (as do the four marriage states).
Hope that helps.
shaz answered the first correctly, they would have to be treated the same.
As for the second, though the constitution may say it, because of DOMA (the Defense of Marriage Act passed during the Clinton administration - stupidest thing he did IMO), other states do NOT have to recognize the marriage as valid. The only state that i know that does recognize the marriages is New York (beyond, of course, the other states that have it legalized now)
1. Presumably yes.
2. Depends on outcome of future litigation. Comity and Full Faith and Credit Clause are complicated litigation issues yet to be ultimately resolved. Precedent in our jurisprudence will involve case law where how to treat foreign slaves and interracial marriage from one jurisdiction to another has already played out. Typically you start with a prima facie showing that full faith and credit should be recognized and then introduce public policy arguments to contest comity.
There's still a lot of gray area when it comes to the rights of a gay couple that gets married.
As more cases are brought against hospitals/insurance companies/etc. for not recognizing their rights, there will be more legal precedent.
I am pretty confident that the insurance companies etc. need to honor gay marriage. I believe some of the honor also domestic partnerships.
It s within your own conscious to sign on the line where they ask a spouse to sign
Thanks.I am looking for some answers on gay marriage, please?
Equal protection will one day soon make gay marriage legal in all 50 states. The fundies can fight it if they want, but they will fail.I am looking for some answers on gay marriage, please?
The benefits given by the states the allow same sex marriage vary. The only other states that will recognize it are other same sex marriage states, and they dont have to. Your marriage wont be recognized internationally either.
Hospitals will let you in the room if the patient says you are family. When it comes to medical decisions, you have to have a signed poa, the marriage isnt enough. Hospitals have to recognize the poa, but a blood family memeber CAN challenge it in court and the courts favor the legal next of kin, and by federal law a same sex spouse is NEVER the legal next of kin.
I dont live in a same sex marriage state, so I dont have the specifics on the others, and it varies as differnet states offer different marrital benefits.
Yes it is a legal marriage so those business that have a lic to do business in MA are required to honor the marriage.
Right now other states are in violation by not recognizing the marriage as it is required by the US Constitution full faith+credit clause which is why other states must accept 2 16 yr old kids that got married in bum funk nowhere as a married couple even though they are kids and the idea that they are married is retarded
Just read an article in yesterday's paper about it...
New York is the only state that does not allow gay marriage that will still recognize it as a marriage. Civil Union states have the conditions for HIPAA, benefits %26amp; beneficiaries, and legal conditions of relationships met (as do the four marriage states).
Hope that helps.
shaz answered the first correctly, they would have to be treated the same.
As for the second, though the constitution may say it, because of DOMA (the Defense of Marriage Act passed during the Clinton administration - stupidest thing he did IMO), other states do NOT have to recognize the marriage as valid. The only state that i know that does recognize the marriages is New York (beyond, of course, the other states that have it legalized now)
1. Presumably yes.
2. Depends on outcome of future litigation. Comity and Full Faith and Credit Clause are complicated litigation issues yet to be ultimately resolved. Precedent in our jurisprudence will involve case law where how to treat foreign slaves and interracial marriage from one jurisdiction to another has already played out. Typically you start with a prima facie showing that full faith and credit should be recognized and then introduce public policy arguments to contest comity.
There's still a lot of gray area when it comes to the rights of a gay couple that gets married.
As more cases are brought against hospitals/insurance companies/etc. for not recognizing their rights, there will be more legal precedent.
I am pretty confident that the insurance companies etc. need to honor gay marriage. I believe some of the honor also domestic partnerships.
It s within your own conscious to sign on the line where they ask a spouse to sign
How do a person know if they have met the right person for marriage and if marriage is suitable?
Please make a list of things concerning only the things that will indicate if a person is readyHow do a person know if they have met the right person for marriage and if marriage is suitable?
it a question of feelingHow do a person know if they have met the right person for marriage and if marriage is suitable?
When you can't stop thinking about that person, when you miss that person when he /she is away no matter how long it is, when you want to spend every waking moment with this person, when you see them and talk to them you get butterflies in your stomach.When sparks fly when you are together, theres a few...
I think marraige should be like any other contract, expires in 2 years and is renewable, or get out. Think of all the court time this would save. If there are children the contract should have provisions for support
You don't...........it is all a gamble !
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it a question of feelingHow do a person know if they have met the right person for marriage and if marriage is suitable?
When you can't stop thinking about that person, when you miss that person when he /she is away no matter how long it is, when you want to spend every waking moment with this person, when you see them and talk to them you get butterflies in your stomach.When sparks fly when you are together, theres a few...
I think marraige should be like any other contract, expires in 2 years and is renewable, or get out. Think of all the court time this would save. If there are children the contract should have provisions for support
You don't...........it is all a gamble !
www.aprincessandaplanner.com can help you with any event or event question world wide.
What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Because, from a conservative economic standpoint, it would take money out of the hands of the federal government because married couples can file jointly and get more deductions. It would reduce taxation.
And if someone doesn't believe in the rights of gays to marry because of the ';sanctity of marriage'; they should look at the sky-high divorce rate before they think it is so sacrosanct.What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Have you ever heard the phrase ';All men are created equal';? If not then you need to research the Declaration of Independence... It means that all people are the same and SHOULD have the same rights... It means that if you take away a person's right to marry just because of their sexuality you are taking away their right to be a true citizen of America, and that's not very constitutional. And I know people say it's unholy, and that all homosexual are going to h*ll, but who are they to judge... Their not the ones getting jumped and verbally/mentally/physically abused because of their sexuality... Sorry about this, It just upsets me that or government can tell us who to love...What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
to make a firm commitment ,for legal reasons ,to join in couple activities ,legal wills-and on and on
maybe because two people love each other....i am str8 but it does not matter to me what people do with each other if they love each other then so be it~1~
to get legal rights. legal wills.
Isn't love the only reason required?
And if someone doesn't believe in the rights of gays to marry because of the ';sanctity of marriage'; they should look at the sky-high divorce rate before they think it is so sacrosanct.What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Have you ever heard the phrase ';All men are created equal';? If not then you need to research the Declaration of Independence... It means that all people are the same and SHOULD have the same rights... It means that if you take away a person's right to marry just because of their sexuality you are taking away their right to be a true citizen of America, and that's not very constitutional. And I know people say it's unholy, and that all homosexual are going to h*ll, but who are they to judge... Their not the ones getting jumped and verbally/mentally/physically abused because of their sexuality... Sorry about this, It just upsets me that or government can tell us who to love...What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
to make a firm commitment ,for legal reasons ,to join in couple activities ,legal wills-and on and on
maybe because two people love each other....i am str8 but it does not matter to me what people do with each other if they love each other then so be it~1~
to get legal rights. legal wills.
Isn't love the only reason required?
What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
My first thought was totally trashing the guy ( her husband) who is causing chaos, but...that's totally not necessary. I want her to feel encouraged. What nice things can I say without sounding harsh (e.g. ';In time you will get over it...';What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
just listen..... that is all that is needed.What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
Give him some time. Things can't stay like this 100% of the time. All you can do is pray and hope for the best.
Just say this: ';Divorce is beautiful';
';I know you are not stupid in love and will always do what is best for your future.';
just listen..... that is all that is needed.What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
Give him some time. Things can't stay like this 100% of the time. All you can do is pray and hope for the best.
Just say this: ';Divorce is beautiful';
';I know you are not stupid in love and will always do what is best for your future.';
What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Because, from a conservative economic standpoint, it would take money out of the hands of the federal government because married couples can file jointly and get more deductions. It would reduce taxation.
And if someone doesn't believe in the rights of gays to marry because of the ';sanctity of marriage'; they should look at the sky-high divorce rate before they think it is so sacrosanct.What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Have you ever heard the phrase ';All men are created equal';? If not then you need to research the Declaration of Independence... It means that all people are the same and SHOULD have the same rights... It means that if you take away a person's right to marry just because of their sexuality you are taking away their right to be a true citizen of America, and that's not very constitutional. And I know people say it's unholy, and that all homosexual are going to h*ll, but who are they to judge... Their not the ones getting jumped and verbally/mentally/physically abused because of their sexuality... Sorry about this, It just upsets me that or government can tell us who to love...What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
to make a firm commitment ,for legal reasons ,to join in couple activities ,legal wills-and on and on
maybe because two people love each other....i am str8 but it does not matter to me what people do with each other if they love each other then so be it~1~
to get legal rights. legal wills.
Isn't love the only reason required?chemical face peel
And if someone doesn't believe in the rights of gays to marry because of the ';sanctity of marriage'; they should look at the sky-high divorce rate before they think it is so sacrosanct.What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
Have you ever heard the phrase ';All men are created equal';? If not then you need to research the Declaration of Independence... It means that all people are the same and SHOULD have the same rights... It means that if you take away a person's right to marry just because of their sexuality you are taking away their right to be a true citizen of America, and that's not very constitutional. And I know people say it's unholy, and that all homosexual are going to h*ll, but who are they to judge... Their not the ones getting jumped and verbally/mentally/physically abused because of their sexuality... Sorry about this, It just upsets me that or government can tell us who to love...What are some non obvious reasons why gay marriage should be legal?
to make a firm commitment ,for legal reasons ,to join in couple activities ,legal wills-and on and on
maybe because two people love each other....i am str8 but it does not matter to me what people do with each other if they love each other then so be it~1~
to get legal rights. legal wills.
Isn't love the only reason required?
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Gay marriage why does no body understand?
Half the fight is about the fact that we don't get the same rights legally as married couples, thats one of the biggest things we're fighting for here.
Why can nobody see this? And if any one responds with we have civil unions that is a load of BS because ot still doesn't give us the same legal rights!Gay marriage why does no body understand?
Why dont you tell us what specific rights you dont have with civil unions vs Marriage? Oh thats right, you cant, because you have the same rights, you just dont get to call yourselves married and you cant use the law to force a priest to marry you. thats it.Gay marriage why does no body understand?
I totally agree with you!
This is about equality and fairness! And it doesn't affect anyone but the two people getting married, anyway.
It just goes to show you how stupid some people are...they're so blinded by their ignorance that logic cannot penetrate their mind.
What really shocks me is that other minorities support Prop 8. I'm like WTF? It wasn't that long ago when inter-racial marriages weren't legal and minorities were treated like second class citizens, so how can they turn around and do that to another group? I don't get it?
Can't people see what is fair and just?
If no one understands gay marriage, is that not a powerful sign something is wrong with it? How can two men ever be equal to a man and a woman?
it doesn't matter if prop 8 goes through Obama was elected and believs that us gays/lesbians should have the same right.
so im sure the fight will be over soon.
And that's why Obama was just elected as President.
i agree with Alex.
We deserve the same rights as anyone else.
Obama can make the change America needs.
Why can nobody see this? And if any one responds with we have civil unions that is a load of BS because ot still doesn't give us the same legal rights!Gay marriage why does no body understand?
Why dont you tell us what specific rights you dont have with civil unions vs Marriage? Oh thats right, you cant, because you have the same rights, you just dont get to call yourselves married and you cant use the law to force a priest to marry you. thats it.Gay marriage why does no body understand?
I totally agree with you!
This is about equality and fairness! And it doesn't affect anyone but the two people getting married, anyway.
It just goes to show you how stupid some people are...they're so blinded by their ignorance that logic cannot penetrate their mind.
What really shocks me is that other minorities support Prop 8. I'm like WTF? It wasn't that long ago when inter-racial marriages weren't legal and minorities were treated like second class citizens, so how can they turn around and do that to another group? I don't get it?
Can't people see what is fair and just?
If no one understands gay marriage, is that not a powerful sign something is wrong with it? How can two men ever be equal to a man and a woman?
it doesn't matter if prop 8 goes through Obama was elected and believs that us gays/lesbians should have the same right.
so im sure the fight will be over soon.
And that's why Obama was just elected as President.
i agree with Alex.
We deserve the same rights as anyone else.
Obama can make the change America needs.
What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
My first thought was totally trashing the guy ( her husband) who is causing chaos, but...that's totally not necessary. I want her to feel encouraged. What nice things can I say without sounding harsh (e.g. ';In time you will get over it...';What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
just listen..... that is all that is needed.What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
Give him some time. Things can't stay like this 100% of the time. All you can do is pray and hope for the best.
Just say this: ';Divorce is beautiful';
';I know you are not stupid in love and will always do what is best for your future.';
just listen..... that is all that is needed.What encouraging words can I give to my friend who is having problems with her marriage?
Give him some time. Things can't stay like this 100% of the time. All you can do is pray and hope for the best.
Just say this: ';Divorce is beautiful';
';I know you are not stupid in love and will always do what is best for your future.';
What does the bible say about sex before marriage?
Please give specific passages, thanks!What does the bible say about sex before marriage?
1 Corinthians 6:9-10, ';Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God.';
1 Corinthians 6:13b, 18 tells us, ';Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without (outside) the body; but he that commiteth fornication sinneth against his own body.';
Galatians 5:19-21 reads, ';Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these, adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness ... of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.';
Thessalonians 4:3-5, ';For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel (body) in sanctification and honor, not in lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which do not know God.';
and lastly,
Hebrews 13:4 reads ';Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.';
Good Luck!What does the bible say about sex before marriage?
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage / premarital sex?';
Answer: There is no Hebrew or Greek word used in the Bible that precisely refers to sex before marriage. The Bible undeniably condemns adultery and sexual immorality, but is sex before marriage considered sexually immoral? According to 1 Corinthians 7:2, “yes” is the clear answer: “But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.” In this verse, Paul states that marriage is the “cure” for sexual immorality. First Corinthians 7:2 is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.
Since 1 Corinthians 7:2 clearly includes sex before marriage in the definition of sexual immorality, all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality as being sinful also condemn sex before marriage as sinful. Sex before marriage is included in the biblical definition of sexual immorality. There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be a sin (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13, 18; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves (Hebrews 13:4).
Far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing that there is another aspect—procreation. Sex within marriage is pleasurable, and God designed it that way. God wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity within the confines of marriage. Song of Solomon and several other Bible passages (such as Proverbs 5:19) clearly describe the pleasure of sex. However, the couple must understand that God’s intent for sex includes producing children. Thus, for a couple to engage in sex before marriage is doubly wrong—they are enjoying pleasures not intended for them, and they are taking a chance of creating a human life outside of the family structure God intended for every child.
While practicality does not determine right from wrong, if the Bible's message on sex before marriage were obeyed, there would be far fewer sexually transmitted diseases, far fewer abortions, far fewer unwed mothers and unwanted pregnancies, and far fewer children growing up without both parents in their lives. Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence saves lives, protects babies, gives sexual relations the proper value, and, most importantly, honors God.
1 Corinthians 6:15-25
The Bible refers to sexual immorality as a blanket term many times, and the generally accepted definition of this to the target audience includes premarital sex. Many young Christians try to compromise or find a loophole in what the Bible refers to as sexual immorality, but none exists. Any one that you can find will be based off of an ignorance of the rest of Scripture. Read the verse I quoted and analyze it's intent and deeper meaning- I think it becomes clear. After that, it becomes up to you whether or not you want to follow the teachings of the Bible. Feel free to email me if you have more questions!
sex before marriage is sinful even if you love each other. Being in love doesn't alter the reality that the sexual act is outside of marriage, marriage being the ceremonial union of a man and woman in matrimony. Sex outside of marriage is called fornication and the Bible definitely condemns it.
* Matt. 15:19-20, ';For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders. 20 These are the things which defile the man.';
* Acts 15:29, ';...that you abstain from things sacrificed to idols and from blood and from things strangled and from fornication; if you keep yourselves free from such things, you will do well.';
* 1 Cor. 6:9-10, ';Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.';
* Heb. 13:4, ';Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.';
So, very clearly fornication is condemned in scripture and there is no provision for it being acceptable just because someone loves another person. Besides if this couple is so much in love, then why don't they carry out what true love is and marry each other? True love is when you put another person first, not when you take something from them. When a man and woman engage in fornication they declare that such love for the other person is more self-centered, rather than other-centered.
all true religions don't permit to have sex before marriage.
if u want more explanation for the reasons refer to the following link:
http://www.islamonline.net/english/index…
` Corinthians 6:9-11: ';What! Do younot know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, 10 nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. 11 And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean, but you have been sanctified, but you have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God.';
**In this scripture Paul describes who would not inheirit God's Kingdom and fornicators are among them.
1 Corinthians 6:13:';Foods for the belly, and the belly for foods; but God will bring both it and them to nothing. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord is for the body.';
1 Corinthians 6:18:';Flee from fornication....';
1 Thessalonians 4:3:';For this is what God wills, the sanctifying of you, that you abstain from fornication;';
Joseph of Bible times was even faced with a tough situation in which his masters wife kept urging him to ';lie down'; with her, but notice Joseph's response: Genesis 39:9-12:';There is no one greater in this house than I am, and he has not withheld from me anything at all except you, because you are his wife. So how could I commit this great badness and actually sin against God?”
10 So it turned out that as she spoke to Joseph day after day he never listened to her to lie alongside her, to continue with her. 11 But it happened that on this day as other days he went into the house to do his business, and there was none of the men of the house there in the house. 12 Then she grabbed hold of him by his garment, saying: “Lie down with me!” But he left his garment in her hand and took to flight and went on outside.';
Clearly God does not approve of sexual relations outside of marriage.
The Bible says No. It's called fornication and means any form of sexual activity between unmarried persons.
1 Corinthians 6:9 - 11, 18: ';What! Do you not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean, but you have been sanctified, but you have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God... Flee from fornication. Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body, but he that practices fornication is sinning against his own body.';
Ephesians 5:5: ';For you know this, recognizing it for yourselves, that no fornicator or unclean person or greedy person—which means being an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of the Christ and of God.';
1 Thessalonians 4:3 - 5: ';For this is what God wills, the sanctifying of you, that you abstain from fornication; that each one of you should know how to get possession of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in covetous sexual appetite such as also those nations have which do not know God;';
1 Corinthians 7: 2, 3: ';because of prevalence of fornication, let each man have his own wife and each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to [his] wife her due; but let the wife also do likewise to [her] husband.';
i don't know about bible, but Holy Quran says we are not permitted to have sex before marriage, it's a sinful act and can harms from several dimensions. why i am talking about Quran since that's also the Book of God and sent for our better understanding.
http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-before-m…
no secs
Nothing specific - it takes ';interpretation';, which allows a lot of different condemnations to be applied.
';Thou shalt practice sex daily with complete strangers and prostitutes my children'; - Isiah 1:3
I think no religion or human behaviour encourages sex before marriage.
Read Complete Quran once if you are daring
Thou shall have sex all day and all night, thou shall not burn in hell as hell don't exist, so get humping. :)
It says that it was a common occurrence throughout the writing of the Bible.
It doesn't. The original term fortification had nothing to do with sex..
well...i dont have a bible with me but i know for a fact that pre-marital sex is frowned upon.
Nothing.
Can we say fornication?
Do it as much as possible.
1 Corinthians 6:9-10, ';Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners shall inherit the kingdom of God.';
1 Corinthians 6:13b, 18 tells us, ';Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord for the body. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without (outside) the body; but he that commiteth fornication sinneth against his own body.';
Galatians 5:19-21 reads, ';Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these, adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness ... of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.';
Thessalonians 4:3-5, ';For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that every one of you should know how to possess his vessel (body) in sanctification and honor, not in lust of concupiscence, even as the Gentiles which do not know God.';
and lastly,
Hebrews 13:4 reads ';Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.';
Good Luck!What does the bible say about sex before marriage?
What does the Bible say about sex before marriage / premarital sex?';
Answer: There is no Hebrew or Greek word used in the Bible that precisely refers to sex before marriage. The Bible undeniably condemns adultery and sexual immorality, but is sex before marriage considered sexually immoral? According to 1 Corinthians 7:2, “yes” is the clear answer: “But since there is so much immorality, each man should have his own wife, and each woman her own husband.” In this verse, Paul states that marriage is the “cure” for sexual immorality. First Corinthians 7:2 is essentially saying that, because people cannot control themselves and so many are having immoral sex outside of marriage, people should get married. Then they can fulfill their passions in a moral way.
Since 1 Corinthians 7:2 clearly includes sex before marriage in the definition of sexual immorality, all of the Bible verses that condemn sexual immorality as being sinful also condemn sex before marriage as sinful. Sex before marriage is included in the biblical definition of sexual immorality. There are numerous Scriptures that declare sex before marriage to be a sin (Acts 15:20; 1 Corinthians 5:1; 6:13, 18; 10:8; 2 Corinthians 12:21; Galatians 5:19; Ephesians 5:3; Colossians 3:5; 1 Thessalonians 4:3; Jude 7). The Bible promotes complete abstinence before marriage. Sex between a husband and his wife is the only form of sexual relations of which God approves (Hebrews 13:4).
Far too often we focus on the “recreation” aspect of sex without recognizing that there is another aspect—procreation. Sex within marriage is pleasurable, and God designed it that way. God wants men and women to enjoy sexual activity within the confines of marriage. Song of Solomon and several other Bible passages (such as Proverbs 5:19) clearly describe the pleasure of sex. However, the couple must understand that God’s intent for sex includes producing children. Thus, for a couple to engage in sex before marriage is doubly wrong—they are enjoying pleasures not intended for them, and they are taking a chance of creating a human life outside of the family structure God intended for every child.
While practicality does not determine right from wrong, if the Bible's message on sex before marriage were obeyed, there would be far fewer sexually transmitted diseases, far fewer abortions, far fewer unwed mothers and unwanted pregnancies, and far fewer children growing up without both parents in their lives. Abstinence is God’s only policy when it comes to sex before marriage. Abstinence saves lives, protects babies, gives sexual relations the proper value, and, most importantly, honors God.
1 Corinthians 6:15-25
The Bible refers to sexual immorality as a blanket term many times, and the generally accepted definition of this to the target audience includes premarital sex. Many young Christians try to compromise or find a loophole in what the Bible refers to as sexual immorality, but none exists. Any one that you can find will be based off of an ignorance of the rest of Scripture. Read the verse I quoted and analyze it's intent and deeper meaning- I think it becomes clear. After that, it becomes up to you whether or not you want to follow the teachings of the Bible. Feel free to email me if you have more questions!
sex before marriage is sinful even if you love each other. Being in love doesn't alter the reality that the sexual act is outside of marriage, marriage being the ceremonial union of a man and woman in matrimony. Sex outside of marriage is called fornication and the Bible definitely condemns it.
* Matt. 15:19-20, ';For out of the heart come evil thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications, thefts, false witness, slanders. 20 These are the things which defile the man.';
* Acts 15:29, ';...that you abstain from things sacrificed to idols and from blood and from things strangled and from fornication; if you keep yourselves free from such things, you will do well.';
* 1 Cor. 6:9-10, ';Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10 nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God.';
* Heb. 13:4, ';Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.';
So, very clearly fornication is condemned in scripture and there is no provision for it being acceptable just because someone loves another person. Besides if this couple is so much in love, then why don't they carry out what true love is and marry each other? True love is when you put another person first, not when you take something from them. When a man and woman engage in fornication they declare that such love for the other person is more self-centered, rather than other-centered.
all true religions don't permit to have sex before marriage.
if u want more explanation for the reasons refer to the following link:
http://www.islamonline.net/english/index…
` Corinthians 6:9-11: ';What! Do younot know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, 10 nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. 11 And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean, but you have been sanctified, but you have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God.';
**In this scripture Paul describes who would not inheirit God's Kingdom and fornicators are among them.
1 Corinthians 6:13:';Foods for the belly, and the belly for foods; but God will bring both it and them to nothing. Now the body is not for fornication, but for the Lord; and the Lord is for the body.';
1 Corinthians 6:18:';Flee from fornication....';
1 Thessalonians 4:3:';For this is what God wills, the sanctifying of you, that you abstain from fornication;';
Joseph of Bible times was even faced with a tough situation in which his masters wife kept urging him to ';lie down'; with her, but notice Joseph's response: Genesis 39:9-12:';There is no one greater in this house than I am, and he has not withheld from me anything at all except you, because you are his wife. So how could I commit this great badness and actually sin against God?”
10 So it turned out that as she spoke to Joseph day after day he never listened to her to lie alongside her, to continue with her. 11 But it happened that on this day as other days he went into the house to do his business, and there was none of the men of the house there in the house. 12 Then she grabbed hold of him by his garment, saying: “Lie down with me!” But he left his garment in her hand and took to flight and went on outside.';
Clearly God does not approve of sexual relations outside of marriage.
The Bible says No. It's called fornication and means any form of sexual activity between unmarried persons.
1 Corinthians 6:9 - 11, 18: ';What! Do you not know that unrighteous persons will not inherit God’s kingdom? Do not be misled. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men kept for unnatural purposes, nor men who lie with men, nor thieves, nor greedy persons, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit God’s kingdom. And yet that is what some of you were. But you have been washed clean, but you have been sanctified, but you have been declared righteous in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ and with the spirit of our God... Flee from fornication. Every other sin that a man may commit is outside his body, but he that practices fornication is sinning against his own body.';
Ephesians 5:5: ';For you know this, recognizing it for yourselves, that no fornicator or unclean person or greedy person—which means being an idolater—has any inheritance in the kingdom of the Christ and of God.';
1 Thessalonians 4:3 - 5: ';For this is what God wills, the sanctifying of you, that you abstain from fornication; that each one of you should know how to get possession of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in covetous sexual appetite such as also those nations have which do not know God;';
1 Corinthians 7: 2, 3: ';because of prevalence of fornication, let each man have his own wife and each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to [his] wife her due; but let the wife also do likewise to [her] husband.';
i don't know about bible, but Holy Quran says we are not permitted to have sex before marriage, it's a sinful act and can harms from several dimensions. why i am talking about Quran since that's also the Book of God and sent for our better understanding.
http://www.gotquestions.org/sex-before-m…
no secs
Nothing specific - it takes ';interpretation';, which allows a lot of different condemnations to be applied.
';Thou shalt practice sex daily with complete strangers and prostitutes my children'; - Isiah 1:3
I think no religion or human behaviour encourages sex before marriage.
Read Complete Quran once if you are daring
Thou shall have sex all day and all night, thou shall not burn in hell as hell don't exist, so get humping. :)
It says that it was a common occurrence throughout the writing of the Bible.
It doesn't. The original term fortification had nothing to do with sex..
well...i dont have a bible with me but i know for a fact that pre-marital sex is frowned upon.
Nothing.
Can we say fornication?
Do it as much as possible.
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