Do i need to stay with my husband who's cheated me after a 10-yr marriage?

I am married for ten years now and found out that my husband got a child from another woman. We don't have our own. What will i do. Do i need to stay with my husband who's cheated me after a 10-yr marriage?
Are you happy with him? then stay if not you have every right to go. There are much better men in the world than him. You'll find someone who will love you and NOT cheat on you. Just keep smiling :)Do i need to stay with my husband who's cheated me after a 10-yr marriage?
Many people can look beyond a cheating spouse, but when they bring a child into the world from their actions, they have crossed a fine line. You don't have to stay in the marriage, you do have choices and options, but many women do stay with their husbands after they have cheated and the outcome is a child, it's all about if you can live with this or not? and if you are convinced in your own mind that history wont repeat itself?
This is hard to answer. Is there anyway to save the marriage? You might both go to a marriage counselor. Getting through this will be very tough and take a long time. However, divorce can hurt a lot worse, especially if you think there is the chance he will mend his ways.





But getting a divorce is totally understandable. You don't want to be with someone who does stuff like this to you.





In any case, you are doing the right thing in getting other's advice and thinking about it before you act.
No one can really tell you what to do. I would be out of the marriage before I could even ask this question. Cheating is a deal breaker and you do not have children to complicate things. You deserve to be treated with respect and love not infidelity! It is a difficult decision so do not make without considering your options. Lots of people leave a marriage and manage to have a wonderful life. It is scary and difficult but never settle for less than you deserve!
THAT IS HORRIBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't care who it is nobody should go through that. You deserve to be treated better than that. You should get a plan together on how leave him. Get a plan that includes where you are going to live, money and things for yourself. You need to take care of yourself. It's better that you get out now while you don't have any children. There is somebody out there who will treat you like the queen that you are. every women should be treated that way plus when you find your king you should treat him as good as he treat you.
I would say it depends on how he treats you generally (apart from what he has done I mean). You do not state what sort of a husband he is, whether he has been a brilliant and good hubby, or whether he has serious faults anyway...nor whether you `loved him dearly` before you discovered his secret.


I mean, if he has been a brilliant husband in all other ways...why ditch a good man? You must know him by now, after 10 years!
Does he want to be forgiven? How long was this going on? Why did he cheat? Just a fling or a lengthy affair? This isn't about needs, but about wants. No one is perfectly happy all the time in a marriage and people make mistakes, so people can be forgiven small indiscretions and with a lot of work they can fix their marriage. He wanted something immoral and has hurt you deeply. But you have to decide how much you think he's been deceiving you. Then ask yourself, do you want him and can you try to forgive him?






Nope.... kick his sorry *** out because once a cheater always a cheater and he is bound to do it again...he was willing to throw away a 10 yr marraige and did not take your feelings into consideration... ((((what an asshole)))) he is





Did he stop to think how it would make you feel when you found out...No he didn't or he would not have done what he did...he's selfish and self centered...






Its simple if you love him stay with him and try your best to replace the thought of him cheating with a new special memory of just you and him a new trip or a new place to live. If you have fallen out of love with him then you should end it. good luck.
Only you can answer this.





If you love him, and truly think he is sorry, then go to therapy and try to forgive and forget.





But if you cannot, then get a divorce. Some people simply cannot overcome this kind of betrayal. Good luck.
That's terrible. You should leave him, that's the lowest of lows!! You can find someone much better, that is just too much deception.
No you don't need to stay with him and I wouldn't if I were you. That's pretty screwed up what he has done. I would divorce him immediately.
Kick him to the cirb......





You dont deserve to be with some one that is willin to go behind your back!
Get rid of that loser. ( sorry if that is harsh.)
You deserve better..good luck
you come on the internet a let a bunch of strangers decide for you!