What is it like being the second wife to someone who is on second marriage and your on first marriage?

do they compare you to their first wife or accidentally call you by their first wife's name?What is it like being the second wife to someone who is on second marriage and your on first marriage?
Who cares if he called you her name, it's not that big of a deal. Your worrying about dumb things. If he has children with his ex it's important that your remain civil with her for the kids. And yes, sometimes you'll get compared, just be a good person and you'll be fine.What is it like being the second wife to someone who is on second marriage and your on first marriage?
It is unlikely that your husband will voice the results of his comparison between you and his first wife. That's not ethical and rude.





You should trust your heart. Does he treat you well, is he sensitive to your needs and wishes, does he help you grow as a person. If he shows genuine interest and commitment to your happiness then there is nothing to worry about -- just relax and enjoy your life. Forgive him if he makes occasional mistakes.
I am engaged to a man who was married before, and we certainly don't have those issues. For one thing if he was married before and was willing to give it another try I am sure he is well over his x, and as far as comparing her to u I would be sure it would all be positive, because why on earth would he marry someone WORSE than his x???? It is really no different than a guy that was in a serious relationship before u. AND if those things ever did happen......I would re-think being with a guy like that. Good luck
they will always have a spot in thier heart for thier first spouse but the love is over. Your spouse has closed that chapter in their life and has committed to you. So please feel reassured that you are very much loved your spouse chosse you and married you. So if there has been a slip in the name it is solely an accident and you just need to give them a bit of slack and love them as they love you
They are less tolerant of imperfections. They know exactly what they DON'T want, and are probably harder on your mistakes and imperfections than they ever were first time around. I think that's the hardest challenge - suffering the consequences of another woman's mistakes.
if relation after second marriage is good %26amp; happy Then he forget about first wife.only he will caompre having no good relation.accidentaly call u by the first wife name, forgive him it was just accident.














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NO they shouldn't I mean a slip every now and then can be acceptable but NEVER should they compare you to them EVER they should LOVE you no matter what


they married you
no i am not married for the second time yet but have been dating the same woman for two years and it does not happen
No.