How do you handle conflict in your marriage?

please help how do you handle conflict in your marriage i need help me and my husband just got married and all we do is fight how do i handle the fightsHow do you handle conflict in your marriage?
A relationship without conflict is no relationship at all.





You should both deal with your conflict with all of the love and respect that brought you together. Couples who can't find a way to have loving conflict don't stay together very long.How do you handle conflict in your marriage?
Calm, open dialogue. That's the only way to resolve conflict and stay together. Try not to get defensive and attack back when your husband says something hurtful or angry. Tell him, ';it hurts me when you say that'; and explain (calmly) why. And ask him, ';what is it that makes you feel that way?'; If you can start talking and express that the last thing you want to do is fight and hurt each other's feelings, you can work this out.
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She throws plates. I restrain her until she has calmed down. I clean up the mess. We bring the discussion to our marriage counselor (MC). The MC listens to us talk, asks us a few questions, and gives us some reading material. We both read what he gave us and learn to improve our thinking and behavior.
You need to see a marriage counsler. You have to find the cause of your fights and work towards a resolution.





I don't agree with going to church at all but if you are into that sort of thing they have free counseling at some churches.





Good luck.
Evaluate what you are arguing about. Is it worth it?? Sometimes in a marriage you must compromise. You don't have to be right all the time. Change it around, be positive and his attitude will change too. Good luck!
Damn just married and already fighting constantly?





Did you evaluate this relationship at all or dive in head first





I would say this new in the stage and always fighting it's time to either A) get some counseling or B) move along
boxing gloves in most sports shops (Y)
best thing to do is to hide your feelings and ignore each other