What would you do if you thought marriage was what you wanted?

then when you got married you wasnt sure if you had done the right thing???What would you do if you thought marriage was what you wanted?
A lot of people feel the same marrage does change the way that you feel about life in general it did for me, Dont rush into anything just sit down and really think about what you ant out of life. Good luckWhat would you do if you thought marriage was what you wanted?
simple. marry.
you must go at stripptise and have good time there if your partner are incopitible with you
well, do you care about this man or not? Forget love - no one can tell you what that means. If you care about each other, than stay, you are unlikely to get better. Its a bit unfair to say, sorry, I've had enough, bye! Unless it is really bad. I agree with first answer - you need to be together 5 years or so before you have any real idea.
tGet divorced or learn to live with it!
Your question probably goes a lot deeper than a simple answer but remember we are all human we make mistakes and from this we can learn lessons of life and grow follow your head and not your heart in these situations and you will make a better decisions
Talk to your husband/wife before discussing with other people. It may reassure you but again it may make you realise you have made a mistake. No matter how much you think it is going to hurt the person you must be truthful as marriage is based on truth and trust from the very beginning.
it depends... if the marriage is relatively new i would give it some more time... but i would defiantly try to fix the problems you have with the marriage before considering a divorce!
Talk to your husband, and may be go to marriage counselling... I'm sure he would understand!
I would try to fix whatever is wrong in my marriage, because people not saying you give up way to fast on marriage they run for a divorce, and marriage is about the good and the bad work through tough situation and fixing them because you both love one another. Make sur that you have tried everything in your power to make it work before considering a divorce. Because it you don't give it your all you are always going to wonder what if and nobody likes that feeling.
It depends on your views of divorce I guess. I do not believe in divorce, that you should be careful before being married, so that divorce is not needed. Waiting it out is the best idea, divorce is such a huge thing that you shouldn't just jump into it. You can try to get help through marriage counseling, or a therapist.
Seek Counceling. Weigh your options, make a decision and stick to it.
This is all about lack of confidence and fear. Get some help from a counsellor to talk things through, and then when you know your own mind, act on it decisively and with love. If you have chosen a partner and now have cold feet, it may not be through any fault of that person. Have respect. For yourself first and then for that person. Good luck and God Bless.
Get yourself to counseling fast....if you told your husband that you were having doubts - then both of you go....eventually you will have to tell him.......be honest
i will get divorced get my freedom back,and then lok for some one else and live my life to the fulest
If I'm not happy I'll get out ASAP. I don't want to waste time when I can be looking for someone else.
Well, one of the advantages of marraige is to confide these insecureitys with your spouse. Maybe he is feeling the same thing and it may bring you closer . That may sound crazy but crazy it what got you married , yes ? Dont talk to your friends ,family ect.. TALK TO YOU HUBAND. Because in the end its what the 2 of you choose and nobody else. Your best friend or mother dont wake up with him everyday do they? Now is the time to see what marrage is all about , the test drive is over. Now its time for a grid lock commute or a long drive with you favorite cd . Change the oil first and vaccum the floor and keep the wind sheild clean.