Is it okay to have an open relationship for sexual desires to save our marriage?

I am a fan of an ethical non-monogamous relationships. I am not in one, but I have researched them very well out of curiosity.





One thing I have read over and over from Swinger tales is that real swingers who do it all the time, enjoy clubs, know your type of marriage and know it will fail. Try to save a marriage with others, and it will kill it soon after. It could be a fun to kill it, but if you are sincerely trying to save it, open marriage is not the answer.





A real open marriage has to have a very strong marriage, and great communication. It requires a near special ability to manage human emotions such as jealously, and if those bonds are not there, and there is not a general sexual interest in others from both partners, it will probably be too much for the marriage because most who attempt it have a spouse who tries it as a kind of gift for their partner, but once they have those sexual images in their head, it will not come out. If it doesn't turn them on, it will definitely turn them off in a way that they will never be able to look at you the same.





Do a lot of research, and figure out where you're marriage is really at, and don't fool yourself or think you can push it in that direction.Is it okay to have an open relationship for sexual desires to save our marriage?
The answer is simple. If you had an openly sexual relationship before you were married, then yes, by all means go for it. However, if the sole reason that you want to start having threesomes or doing the whole swinging bit is to save your marriage then you are going about it all the wrong ways.


Passion and spice in a relationship isn't something that you just 'lose'. If you had passion for someone at one point in time you can have it again.


Don't try to change your partner's desires, the only thing that can change them is themselves. Therefore you have to motivate them by changing yourself. Go to http://tinyurl.com/kqsry7 to learn all what I told you and SO MUCH more about things you can do to save your marriage.


I'm sure you appreciate your marriage just as much as I appreciate mine. That's why you should learn not just the newest ways to save it, but the best.Is it okay to have an open relationship for sexual desires to save our marriage?
Sure there is nothing wrong wiit it if that is what you both truely want. I will tell you this, they rarely work.Mainly because it was really one spouse who pushes the idea on the other. Even if they agree someone always ends up hurt. Might want to take a look at what is truely driving your desires and see if it is something your spouse can provide. If that person cant you really need to question why you got married.


A lot of times these suggestions are merely a way for one spouse to act out their desires without the risk of being caught cheating.
I don't think that will save your marriage - it will probably more or less destroy it.





You don't explain why you two can't work out your sexual issues or whatever issues you are having. See a marriage counselor.
If you think it will save your relationship. However, it also may backfire on you. So watch out.
I don't see how that can save a marriage. All I can imagine that causing is jealousy.
switch hit baby! spice up the bedroom with new things as in porno,vibrator,strapon, handcuffs,hire an escort and share her or him.
If your marriage is already in trouble, bringing more people into it is only going to make things worse.
no it will only make things worse.remember marriage is a husband and wife not husband and wife plus
Just admit that the money between you to is the reason your not divorced already.
99% failure rate!
You think putting yourself at risk for HIV or HPV is going to save your marriage?