Im getting married in approx 2 months...it wud b an arrange marriage...so guyz and gals ...what all attributes should i look for in the girl....is there thing else i need to know about her other normal things....How to make sure she's a virgin? any help regarding marriage article is appreciated....thank u all.Girls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
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forgot about virginity . stupid question :: because ........ virginity is something now a days ......when you met someone and she dont have feeling for anyone else ...dont look in her past ..........
evrybody did some mistake may be she did one so .........forgive her for tht without asking .
idle girl quality
1. love ....to love you n ur family
2.honesty.....to make you feel secure whole life
3.respect. for her parent and for your parents
4.strenght.... any circumtrances she wont leave you n be with u n become ur strength .
5.she can bear pain....take pain on her ...dont let you feel coz thats the best quality
6.smile for you ..... she must smile for you to relive your ............stress ...if she not smile then you smile for her
hope this help
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avanish_cool@yahoo.co.inGirls kindly answers this ';What are the attributes that should be looked in a girl before marriage?';?
You need to check for compatibility. Will the two of you get along well? What are her interests and plans for the future? Does she take responsibility for her actions and can stand the ground when there are things needed to be done as opposed to pushing them off or procrastinating?
There is a medical test that can be administered to prove she's a virgin, but it's so easy for a woman to break her hymen without the need of intercourse that virginity isn't necessarily as an essential to marriage.
Hmmm. I will leave the virginity issue alone - I can't really help you with that.
The only advice I can really give you, if it can be of use, is to see how she behaves around children and animals. If she is kind and gentle with them, you can be sure that she has a softer side to her character, and will treat you and your family with kindness.
Spend a little time with her mother, and get to know her. You can use her as a gauge to know how your new wife will be as she ages. It's not true in all cases, but many times, a girl does become more like her mother when she is married for a number of years.
Talk to the girl! It's pretty obvious, isn't it? Find out what she likes to do. Is she creative - does she paint, does she like gardening, etc? She will be happy at home. Is she more active, outgoing, sporty? She will probably be somewhat career oriented and like a busy social life.
Good Luck!
First of all, there's not way to ';make sure'; a girl is a virgin, and even so, who cares if she is? That shouldn't be a concrete reason to marry someone.
You should look for kindness, compassion, honesty, and affection in someone you chose to marry. Also, co-operation and a willingness to compromise will make any marriage run smoothly.
arrange marriage?.. gee. i think what matters is she's a good person all in all.
you may not know if she's a virgin or not for sure.
anyway..here's some of the things that i think you should look for..eventho some of them you might not know unless you be with her for a period of time..
loves you.
GOOD PERSONAL HYGEINE..(very important. that goes to guys as well.)
not crazy.
trustworthy.
values relationships and family.
makes wise decisions.
manages money well.
Fun.Friendly.Flirts(only with you)
Caring.
loves kids.
hope it goes well.
wow...looks like you've got a recipe for a happy marriage already.
Make sure she can cook and clean. And divorce her if she doesn't produce you with a son.
You know you can take her to a doctor and have her examined to make sure she is a virgin.
And make sure you lock all the doors and windows when you leave the house, we don't want her escaping now do we...
I would say think whether you are eligible person for this marriage. Don't think about virgin or other attributes. Just Love her to get them married, then all other will be Lovable, then Life will be Happy...
If you have these kind of questions in your mind during your marrinage you will not be happy at any time. Be Cooooool
All the Best for your Happy married Life.
sweet natured - honest. has ability to compromise. kindness. ability to communicate with her and her with you. easy going nature. doesnt find fault too easily. not quick to anger.
dont worry about the virgin thing too much (unless it really is very important to you)- without being too crude -there can be advantages to marrying someone who has a little experience in the past.
wow marriage is a major commitment and amazing step in life - good luck and hope you find your ideal life partner
I would think the following would be important:
* Communication skills - if you can't understand or talk to each other then the relationship is going to have problems
* Listening Skills - you need to be able to listen to and understand what your partner is wanting
* Future plans - need to be similar to yours or at least a little flexible
* Ideal Family - what plans does she have in regards to having a family and does this idea fit in with yours
These days it is better u know her personally. So do not marry in haste. Take some gap in between engagement %26amp; marriage %26amp; pass time with her.
U know better what u want in ur wife.
Some husbands like there wife to be housewife only, in that case she must be williing to take responsibility of house. Some husbands are miser %26amp; do not want to keep any maid servent while wives want to keep as they dso not know cooking washing, tailoring etc.. this creates rifts. Some wives do not want to live with in-laws while boys like.
I think ur hobbies must match.
If u like films, books, partying , religion or touring, or music, she must also like. So u must clear it.
Dude, this is odd. You can't make sure she's a virgin, and if that is your priority then I don't know what to tell you. You are the only one who knows what type of people you like and get along with. If it's arranged, does it even matter? You can't change her.
virginity ain't a taboo anymore... sadly, most arranged or fixed marriages are not that successful.. almost half of it end in divorce. what you need to know about her is her innermost attitude.. is she the wife material?? could she be a good wife?? can she stick to fidelity?? it's up to you to know. good luck, folk!
A doctor report on her virginity.
enthusiastic
obedient
faithful
smart
good conversationalist
pretty
nice breasts
good physical condition
nice teeth
no glasses
no family history of heriditory diseases
good financial state
good home management skills
marketable job skills
Easy to get along with family
Knows how to drive and operate basic machinery
Artistic
No excess bagage
Wants to marry you.
what difference would it make it the marriage is arranged, it won't matter what to look for, you are sol.................
If its an arranged marriage, do you have a choice? Are you going to be seeing her before the ceremony? Can you say no?
U should be asking this to married husbands rather then to girls....
Look for a beautiful girl (as per your own perception) that fit your life style and family values.
u should watch out her family and friends... if its an arranged marrage do trust ur parents... n have faith in almighty.... as womens charcter can be well predicted after the weddding as far as i know.... anycase all the very best for ur future!!!Go on men....
Friendship and the ablility to communicate is the most valuable thing for a marriage.
if she appreciates you if sha can cook if shes clean how she is around animals and kids
good luck
its better u know things personally not any thing like virginity or stuff cos it may hurt her feelings !!! there are ways to test all this ! but Its better to know things verbally !
Stick your finger in her, then you'll know
.....Idiot.
no idea but cool name raul. im raqhim
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