How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??

We havent been married long but have SO MUCH STRESS in our lives that we dont ever make time to ACTUALLY MAKE LOVE. How can I bring back the romance? How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
I think you need to forget the sex for a minute and go RIGHT back to the beginning; start courting again! Set up dates with each other and get really dressed up. Go out to dinner and the movies and FLIRT like you used to! Remind yourselves how much you love each other. THEN you can start bringing the sex back.How can I bring back the romance in our marriage??
kk i have two options


you could either dedicate a while day where either youself or both of you take the day off if you can afford too that is





so you can get things ready for the day


basically wear your best laundray, laver the bed in rose petals and any other touches such as your favourite songs and mood setters


hopefully you will get home earlier than him so put a note on the door (make sure it deosnt fall of please)


that say follow the notes and do as i say


then inside have a little table with a glass of wine on it oe champagne if you want





then have a note next to it saying goto the bathroom


(note this is for him to put on the condom so if you dont use condoms just put you know where to come on the note)





then in the bathroom have a condom with a note saying you know what to do and where to come





then ill leave the rest to you





now this is the version where you come home from work and you have sometime to prepare or you could take the day off and prepare





hope i helped
Can you send him silly/kinky texts on his phone...and then follow through with them later?


Make dinner in an apron, and only an apron (i really do this sometimes!).


If you don't make dinner, make dinner!


Make him a dessert he loves. I researched ganache and made my long term b/f a 3 layer chocolate cake w/ ganache and cherries (his fave, not mine!)


Tell him you want to go to a carnival, or a hike in the park, or go far far away and do it in the woods.


Or go out to a restaurant and have too many drinks and laugh laugh laugh...
Take it from a pro. I have kids, and boy can things get hectic then. We are so busy running around doing our jobs, playing with the kids, entertaining them and cleaning up and cleaning up and cleaning up....whew!! When is there time for love? Well...everyday as far as I'm concerned...but you always have to try try try. And that is what marriage is about.


There are lots of things that I do. I'll turn off the tv and just strip in the living room. He never says no to that. Sometimes we will watch tv cuz we're exhausted until late and then go to bed and no nookie cuz we're too tired....we essentially replace sex with tv....yuck!!





I also do the apron/dinner thing, when the kids aren't home.


I also dress up. I'll wear his button up shirt and tie and nothing else but an awesome pair of heels and meet him at the door (when the kids aren't home)


I wake him up in the middle of the night, or a half hour before the alarm goes off in the morning with a little oral service. That gets things moving.





I send him naughty pics of me to his cell phone while he's at work, and he sends them to me too!! We text dirty things too. It's awesome. You feel awkward at first, but when you see how much it turns your husband on you will feel great, sexy, and loved.





Don't wait for him to come on to you, and don't give him little hints that you're in the mood, they don't get those...they are men. You have to be obvious. Just start massaging him and give him a deep kiss in the middle of a sentence while he's talking.





Well...that stuff isn't so much romance, I guess. But these things are a great way to spice things up when there is no time for romance.





Whenever we get a break (which isn't often because we are so busy) we are romantic with walks on the beach, wrestling matches, quiet dinners out, and scary movie cuddle time at the theater. But spice things up in between these romantic dates.





Good Luck!



Well it seems like the two of you need to make time for just the two of you.





Try to go back to the way things were when you were courting, and see how he likes it. Try looking sexy when he's at home instead of just walking around in unattractive pajamas.
try going places...so have a romantic dinner where you had your first date...or watch a romantic movie together in bed. Think about how your relationship first started and improvise.


Leave all the stress and to-do's at the door and just relax. Turn off the phones. Light some candles.
what does romance have to do with marriage?


you already got him to commit already, now you dont have to do anything.
Variety my friend VARIETY!!